I'm proud of myself today because....

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Fri Aug 29, 2008 6:42 pm

Even though it was late, I made a serious effort to get my lab done, and got most of it in..

Even though I don't understand too much.

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Post by theunspoken » Fri Aug 29, 2008 7:47 pm

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Post by Ruby Tuesday » Sun Aug 31, 2008 5:42 pm

I've lost weight
I am taking care of myself.
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Post by DecemberLivy » Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:36 am

I smiled
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"My life's a mess"
"That's the way it's supposed to be" - soap -
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I think I'll paint roads
on my front room walls
to convince myself
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Post by Shaz » Wed Sep 03, 2008 2:48 am

I did what i had to do to stay alive and i managed to leave him. I havn't si'd...
i'm dying praying bleeding and screaming
am i too lost to be saved
am i too lost?

my God my tourniquet
return to me salvation
my wounds cry for the grave
my soul cries for deliverance
will i be denied Christ
tourniquet
my suicide
-EVANESCENCE
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today

Post by ber_ber3 » Wed Sep 03, 2008 4:06 am

[color=orange][/color][color=red][/color]I am proud of myself today because i joined this group and have taken a step toward helping myself
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Post by yellow_submarine » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:08 am

I found my way around this bloody huge campus and made it to all my classes on time without needing help.
Keep Moving Forward. ~Meet the Robinsons
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Post by Alexithymia » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:56 am

I did really great on 3 Geology quizzes. :1hurray:
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Post by xunwrittenx » Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:11 am

I coped well with putting my cat down.
Yay me for not thinking about triggers.
Even though it's truly bittersweet.
I miss my baby.
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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Sat Sep 06, 2008 2:46 am

Even though it's not too much, I did make -some- progress on my CWS paper that I need a first draft by tuesday for. I at least have three semi paragraphs instead of just nothing.

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It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.


Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.

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Post by Beasty » Sat Sep 06, 2008 5:10 am

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"No boom today. Boom tomorrow. There’s always a boom tomorrow. What? Look, somebody’s got to have some damn perspective around here. Boom, sooner or later. BOOM!" - Susan Ivanova

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Post by catspiracy » Sat Sep 06, 2008 5:31 am

Today I got up at 6:30, made everyone breakfast, had clean towels and work uniform ready for DH, and used written notes to confront kids on minor rule infractions. No fighting or yelling, and everyone was fed, dressed, and out to work and school on time. Then I spent the day researching online how to fix my marriage and heal myself, joined BUS, and wrote a post that ended with a positive affirmation.

It's hard--but good--to feel proud. Thanks for this thread.
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Post by PassingCloud » Sat Sep 06, 2008 8:21 am

this is really yesterday:
i used coping mechanisms, held onto hope, instead of doing something harmful.
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[I'm not just talking about one person,][I'm talking about everybody.]
[I'm talking about form, I'm talking about content.][I'm talking about inter-relationships.]
[I'm talking about God, the Devil, Hell, Heaven!]
[Do you understand?]
[Finally?]
(one flew over the cuckoo's nest)
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Post by Glockenspiel » Tue Sep 09, 2008 9:18 pm

I went to group therapy yesterday and talked a lot.
I always enjoy myself, even when I'm crying -- Jen Johnson

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Post by KLove24 » Wed Sep 10, 2008 12:31 am

I am proud of myself today because...
I am not going to stoop to her level
I am going to go out and have a good time and have fun with my "real" friends
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Post by the edge of the world » Thu Sep 11, 2008 5:24 am

I made a semi-edible meal. woot.
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Post by PassingCloud » Thu Sep 11, 2008 12:51 pm

because i stayed safe in my mom's house.
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[I'm not just talking about one person,][I'm talking about everybody.]
[I'm talking about form, I'm talking about content.][I'm talking about inter-relationships.]
[I'm talking about God, the Devil, Hell, Heaven!]
[Do you understand?]
[Finally?]
(one flew over the cuckoo's nest)
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Post by Glockenspiel » Fri Sep 12, 2008 5:58 pm

Because I came to work every day this week.
I always enjoy myself, even when I'm crying -- Jen Johnson

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Post by amyfairy » Fri Sep 12, 2008 9:44 pm

..because I stopped myself before I engaged in a full-on binge. :-?
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Post by Spidey » Sat Sep 13, 2008 12:46 am

I did not grab the phone from her and lay into him like it is going out of style.
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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