My "?" feelings would improve if I ...

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Post by hedgepig » Sun May 17, 2009 10:47 am

My sad/empty/lonely/angry/isolated/frustrated/tense/frightened feelings would improve if I could let myself tell someone and ask for a hand to hold.
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Post by Demosthenes » Mon May 18, 2009 5:38 pm

My haziness would be improved if I wasn't so hard on myself.
Mine being hard on myself would improve if I tried to have the same patience with myself as I do with other people, doing it regularly.
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Post by Naeshaia » Mon May 18, 2009 11:02 pm

My anxious feelings would improve if I stopped procrastinating and actually worked on what I need to do instead of doing nothing and worrying about it.
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Post by a7xcncangel » Sun May 24, 2009 2:35 pm

hedgepig wrote:My sad/empty/lonely/angry/isolated/frustrated/tense/frightened feelings would improve if I could let myself tell someone and ask for a hand to hold.
*holds hand*

My uneasy feeling would improve if I sat back and watched tv
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Post by Otohime » Tue May 26, 2009 8:29 am

My anxious feelings would lessen if I could figure out what to write for my screenplay.

My guilty feeling would lessen if I emailed my mentor whom I've been avoiding.

My loneliness would lessen if I had a friend.
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Post by Spidey » Tue May 26, 2009 6:49 pm

My everything would improve if I, I don't know.
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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Post by Beasty » Thu May 28, 2009 4:03 am

My loneliness would lessen if I grew some balls (metaphorically) and contacted people.
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Post by handmade mute » Mon Jun 22, 2009 2:41 pm

My frustration would be lessened if I actually dealt with things, or at least journalled, rather than keeping it all inside and ignoring it.
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Post by Spidey » Mon Jul 06, 2009 2:51 pm

My tired feelings would improve if I went back to sleep.
My sadness would improve if I quit thinking about __________.
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Post by bearcat » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:15 am

All the pressure would improve if I dealt with not being able to afford my situation and arranged something else. Finally.
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Post by badgirl22 » Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:00 pm

My sad/anxious/frustrated/anger but mostly sadness and depression would improve if I do something productive today but I just don't want to do anything...how to get myself to do something today?
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Post by jadestarwalking » Fri Aug 07, 2009 4:22 am

my depressive feelings would improve if I only keep a open mind about the skills that they are teaching me in intensive outpatient therapy.
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Post by badgirl22 » Fri Aug 07, 2009 5:43 pm

what skills are they teaching you? DBT?CBT? What? Just curious
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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Fri Aug 07, 2009 8:57 pm

my anxious feelings would improve if i could stand up for myself more
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Post by fragmentedxdream » Sat Aug 08, 2009 6:10 am

my anxious feelings would improve if i could get away from all the stress
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Post by jadestarwalking » Sat Aug 08, 2009 7:24 am

badgirl22 wrote:what skills are they teaching you? DBT?CBT? What? Just curious
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Post by jadestarwalking » Sat Aug 08, 2009 7:26 am

my suicidal feelings would improve if I remind myself that people do care.
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Post by Spidey » Sun Aug 09, 2009 5:11 am

jadestarwalking wrote:my suicidal feelings would improve if I remind myself that people do care.
Hey, I know we've never talked, but I care.

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Post by fragmentedxdream » Sun Aug 09, 2009 5:53 am

my bitter//anxious feelings would improve if i could let go of the past and what happened
"...occasionally I wished I could walk through a picture window and have the sharp, broken shards slash me to ribbons so I would finally look like I felt." - Elizabeth Wurtzel

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Post by Feeorin » Wed Aug 12, 2009 12:42 am

My depressed emotions would improve if I verified what will happen to Meru since me and rae arent dating anymore.
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