My "?" feelings would improve if I ...

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by vampirelover » Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:55 pm

stopped thinking about the bad things people have said to me
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Post by Understand » Fri Oct 16, 2009 3:20 am

My happiness would improve if I gave my boyfriend a hug right now *goes to hug him* :blush:
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Post by jadestarwalking » Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:49 am

my feelings about my love life would improve if I just opened myself up more.
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Post by OhioHeart » Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:07 am

My feelings of despair would improve if i kept dancing
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Post by kittyfever » Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:03 pm

My feelings of inadequacy would improve if a could get a job in this wasteland economy
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Post by strider 151 » Thu Nov 26, 2009 6:56 pm

my feelings of depression would improve if i wrote it all out and emailed it to my understanding friend :1love:
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

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Post by Stormy Llwellyn » Thu Nov 26, 2009 7:18 pm

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Post by ausnat88 » Fri Nov 27, 2009 8:18 pm

My feelings of being overwhelmed by the changes I'm trying to make would improve if I remember that I don't have to fix everything at once.
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Post by strider 151 » Tue Dec 01, 2009 11:08 pm

my feelings of caution could be improved by taking my time to think before i act
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
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Post by strider 151 » Sat Dec 05, 2009 12:14 am

lol I post here far too often


My tiredness feelings would improve if i tryed to sleep
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
it only matters who you want to be and where you want to end up.

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Post by KeepTryin » Wed Dec 09, 2009 12:23 am

my sadness would improve if i could find someone who understands
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Post by strider 151 » Wed Dec 09, 2009 8:49 am

my scared feelings would improve if I said goodbye.....
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
it only matters who you want to be and where you want to end up.

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Post by strider 151 » Wed Dec 09, 2009 7:49 pm

my cautious feelings would improve if i binned my tool
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
it only matters who you want to be and where you want to end up.

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*I can do all things through christ who strengthens me, Philippians 4:13*
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Post by strider 151 » Sun Dec 13, 2009 10:04 am

my worried feelings would improve if i started trusting
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
it only matters who you want to be and where you want to end up.

:pangel: [Working Towards Recovery] :pangel:
*I can do all things through christ who strengthens me, Philippians 4:13*
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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Sun Dec 13, 2009 6:06 pm

my feelings of overwhelmd confusion would improve if i made a list and tried to just get one thing done at a time
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Post by versarian » Sun Dec 27, 2009 2:03 pm

My underlying feelings of shame towards my body would improve if I stopped comparing myself to media portrayals of women.

(damnit, even written down it sounds so hollow! :newevil: )
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Post by strider 151 » Mon Dec 28, 2009 12:22 am

my scared feelings would improve if i told dad about it. i cant though.....
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
it only matters who you want to be and where you want to end up.

:pangel: [Working Towards Recovery] :pangel:
*I can do all things through christ who strengthens me, Philippians 4:13*
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Post by versarian » Mon Dec 28, 2009 7:59 pm

My worries about the future would ease if I started working more concretely towards earning money.
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Post by strider 151 » Mon Dec 28, 2009 8:10 pm

my happy feelings would improve if i danced around the room :D
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

In the end, it doesnt matter where you have been or who you were,
it only matters who you want to be and where you want to end up.

:pangel: [Working Towards Recovery] :pangel:
*I can do all things through christ who strengthens me, Philippians 4:13*
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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Mon Dec 28, 2009 11:09 pm

my icky tummy would feel improved if i made some soothing tea
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