tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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by freespeechz » Sun Dec 28, 2008 2:48 am
I'm sick of feeling this way.
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by Lynds » Fri Jan 02, 2009 2:30 pm
"She would never know, because he would never tell her. Somehow if she’d known the worst parts, she couldn’t have gone on being a haven for him… He needed her ignorance to hide in. Yet at the same time, he wanted to know and be known as deeply as possible. And the two desires were irreconcilable"
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by Koru » Sun Jan 04, 2009 1:55 am
I want to cry but I'm afraid that if I do I won't stop until I SI
So I'll have to make do with BUS tears

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by dylanlil » Wed Jan 07, 2009 1:39 am
Lynne-Anne u will be missed forever u died on the cold rocks that day, im so sorry i lived! Never got to say goodbye but i love u..xx
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by Joseph » Fri Jan 16, 2009 3:50 am
I cant cry in real life. I will see a show with a father and son scene and a tear will leak out but real tears I only remember once. I tried to find my brother who was taken away when my father passed away. I decided it was my time to act like an adult I was over 30 at the time. I tracked down my sister who also left from my mom. When I called her "I hated her" she told me that my brother had died of cancer a year earlier. I spent the day in shock and later that night in bed hiding under the covers I fell apart for the first time in memory. My wife was there to hold me which I am great full.
I have a heart full of tears that I wish I could let out maybe someday.
For now this will have to do

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by vampirelover » Fri Jan 16, 2009 11:55 am
all i wanna do is cry

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by Sheliya » Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:35 pm

It's too much...I just wanna cry...
How did you know that I'm all alone today
Oh I feel so scared and I want to go away
I bleed so deep underneath
My soul is screaming
I'm not gonna hide, I'm not gonna run away
I'll uncover the scars, and show you every mistake
Your love has mended my blisters and my bruising shame
Now I'm not ashamed.
Here with you I am safe
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by ultimate starshine » Fri Jan 16, 2009 4:11 pm
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by kat11 » Mon Jan 19, 2009 7:23 am
feel like crying...
but don't know how
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by Joseph » Tue Jan 20, 2009 5:27 am
The tears will come Kat when you are ready to let them flow. Unfortunately it is outside of your control.
Until then kind thoughts and wishes from the many here you have helped including me.
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by kat11 » Tue Jan 20, 2009 5:46 am
thanks...
still feel like crying
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by leemc77 » Tue Jan 20, 2009 11:51 am
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by a7xcncangel » Tue Jan 20, 2009 6:20 pm
To everyone who feels like crying....

(if ok)
I'm here to talk/rant/etc to if needed.
I wish I could comfort each and everyone of you (again, if ok)
Please know that's it's ok to have a good cry. I can be very emotional, but it's ok. It's better to let out all your feelings then to bottle them up.
I love you all!
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