tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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by capricorn » Wed Jun 09, 2010 10:11 pm
Well done! That's awesome.
I'm proud of myself because I sent in my first ever job application today.

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by Annybelly » Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:13 pm
wow- way to go, sounds really cool, here's hoping it all goes well
i'm proud of myself for taking the time to learn my scales on tuesday night.
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by Glockenspiel » Fri Jun 11, 2010 1:19 am
I managed to say something optimistic.
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by SplinteredGirl » Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:29 am
i went for a walk. i painted a picture. i have not SIed allthough my mother has said nothing tome today sept glare. i saw a friend. i studied a little....
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by Annybelly » Sat Jun 12, 2010 4:02 pm
Kitti- well done hun, proud of you!
Glockenspiel- wow, it can be hard 2 b optimisitc, well done
Splintered Girl- wow, uv been busy! well done, especially for not siing!
as for me..
I bought a top, a vest top, i went shopping with my mum, and didnt stress tooo much when it was a close call with her nearly seeing stuff i didnt want her to see.
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♥ "You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are." ♥
♥ "My thoughts are stars I can't fathom into constellations." ♥
♥ "I lit up like a Christmas tree, Hazel Grace." ♥
♥ "Things haven't always been this bad, therefore, things won't always be this bad." ♥
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by capricorn » Sat Jun 12, 2010 9:52 pm
^woot for shopping and keeping a calm head.
Revising.
Writing.
Not doing triggery things.
~Capri
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"Awake and unafraid."
My Chemical Romance
"I am haunted by humans."
The Book Thief
"Been trying hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind."
Lana Del Rey
"It's always darkest just before the dawn. So stay awake with me. Let's prove them wrong."
Rise Against
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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by Annybelly » Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:22 pm
yeah. i use this thread a lot atm. but i like it. its not over-indulgant, i can almost use te excuse i just like to encourage others (which i do). but then, it makes me think of something i'm proud of myself for, and makes me think in a more positive frame of mind.
ANYWAY...
capricorn- woot for the revision, it can take a lot of willpower to actually get some done, especially when theres other stuff ud rather be doing! writing also sounds awesome[sauce].. and as for not doing triggy things, well done
i ate reasonably. not too much, not too little. i didnt let R get me down too much. as in, yeah, im peed off at her. but im not gunna let that affect my mood.. im gunna go and have a little mini rant in things left unsaid i think. get all the negative stuff out there.

♥ "Hope. It is the only thing stronger than fear." ♥
♥ "You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are." ♥
♥ "My thoughts are stars I can't fathom into constellations." ♥
♥ "I lit up like a Christmas tree, Hazel Grace." ♥
♥ "Things haven't always been this bad, therefore, things won't always be this bad." ♥
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by calypso » Mon Jul 19, 2010 10:10 am
I went to my first ever day at uni.
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by Annybelly » Mon Jul 19, 2010 5:20 pm
wow, that's good going, hope it was awesome
because I didn't join in with them at lunch about Z, but i didnt let it get to me either
♥ "Hope. It is the only thing stronger than fear." ♥
♥ "You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are." ♥
♥ "My thoughts are stars I can't fathom into constellations." ♥
♥ "I lit up like a Christmas tree, Hazel Grace." ♥
♥ "Things haven't always been this bad, therefore, things won't always be this bad." ♥
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by capricorn » Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:00 am
^glad to hear it
Because I booked my HPV jab
Booked a haircut
Wrote
And I was feeling kind of horrible, and Bus wasn't working [on my computer?] but I coped
~Capri
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"Awake and unafraid."
My Chemical Romance
"I am haunted by humans."
The Book Thief
"Been trying hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind."
Lana Del Rey
"It's always darkest just before the dawn. So stay awake with me. Let's prove them wrong."
Rise Against
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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by Annybelly » Wed Jul 21, 2010 6:50 pm
awesome, a list! the HPV jabs arent so bad, theyre worth it in the long run..
i jumped in the river with my rafting. and i can barely swim

, i had a life vest on, i just faced my fear, and for the first time EVER, in like 3 years of going to this place, i jumped in.
sorry, i'm ridiculously excited about it.. but i was so happy!
♥ "Hope. It is the only thing stronger than fear." ♥
♥ "You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are." ♥
♥ "My thoughts are stars I can't fathom into constellations." ♥
♥ "I lit up like a Christmas tree, Hazel Grace." ♥
♥ "Things haven't always been this bad, therefore, things won't always be this bad." ♥
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by guest567 » Mon Jul 26, 2010 11:03 pm
I went to he gym today and joined a gym class. I am uncoordinated and not fit in the slightest but I didn't care and neither did anyone else.
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by strmdncr » Tue Jul 27, 2010 8:00 am
I pushed past my fears in contacting T's in an effort to continue to move forward in my healing process.
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by Beasty » Tue Aug 03, 2010 10:57 pm
Hung out with my grandmother.
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by Annybelly » Thu Aug 26, 2010 7:07 pm
that's all awesome, well done guys
because I went to the dentist, and didn't majorly freak!
♥ "Hope. It is the only thing stronger than fear." ♥
♥ "You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are." ♥
♥ "My thoughts are stars I can't fathom into constellations." ♥
♥ "I lit up like a Christmas tree, Hazel Grace." ♥
♥ "Things haven't always been this bad, therefore, things won't always be this bad." ♥
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by Stellaria » Thu Sep 02, 2010 2:26 pm
I'm taking care of myself as if I'm worthy of it.
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by Annybelly » Mon Sep 06, 2010 7:49 pm
both awesome, and thats very true.
i'm proud of myself for not loosing it when i found i had my dreaded teacher, even if it is playing on my mind now.
♥ "Hope. It is the only thing stronger than fear." ♥
♥ "You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are." ♥
♥ "My thoughts are stars I can't fathom into constellations." ♥
♥ "I lit up like a Christmas tree, Hazel Grace." ♥
♥ "Things haven't always been this bad, therefore, things won't always be this bad." ♥
My Place
My Efforts At Being Healthy
My Bus Butterfly Obsession
♥ DFTBA ♥
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by capricorn » Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:36 pm
Well done Anny
And I hope the school stuff works out for you...
I was in charge of a new kid at work, and coped with that
Didn't flip out when my mom got me a kitchen knife for living alone purposes
Sorted out my bank stuff
~Capri
xoxo
"Awake and unafraid."
My Chemical Romance
"I am haunted by humans."
The Book Thief
"Been trying hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind."
Lana Del Rey
"It's always darkest just before the dawn. So stay awake with me. Let's prove them wrong."
Rise Against
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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