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Post by angel-for-you » Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:27 pm

i answered the phone even though it was a night for just me and my dad...she cried for me to come over and help...she had planned to kill herself but called to say goodbye to the answering machine if i didnt answer.
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Post by searching_for_solace » Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:08 pm

I love this thread!

hm. Today I gave my friend a pen in class, and let him keep it. I wouldn't have said it was really a random act of kindness, but he seemed so greatful for it I guess it was to him.

And I sat and listened to this girl from my old school, (who, on the first day, wouldn't even tell me her name when I asked her. She just ignored me) talk about her career and how she hates highschool, waht she wants to do for her future, how she plans on taking such and such classes do prepare for that, but how FL laws are preventing her from doing what she wants.

I asked her if she wanted to talk to my mom about it since my mom is a teacher, knows FL laws and is the one the FPEA homeschool group sends people to talk to.
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Post by ultimate starshine » Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:13 pm

i sat in my lecture ad took notes for three of my friends who have all come down with the flu :)
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Post by searching_for_solace » Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:19 pm

I bookmarked this thread. I encourage you all to do the same. Can't let it die!

My friend was talking to her dad over speaker phone, and he started being really mean to her, holding everything she's ever done wrong over her head, and blaming her for her sister being in jail, and saying that she couldn't just call out of the blue when she wanted something, she should call more often. She said yes sir, no sir, and was very respectful though I could tell she was angry and upset and as soon as she hung up she started crying very very hard. I went over and hugged her. My dad came in and prayed for her.

That night when we dropped her off at the laundry mat where her soon to be husband's mother worked (her boyfriend is off in the marrines, and she stays with his family.) I ran into the grocery store and bought her a nice big bar of dove chocolate and gave it to her. She almost started crying again, but it was a good kind of crying.

And It reminded me I have a good life. Good family, nice house, going to collage, my family isn't in jail or anything. Sure I've messed up and it's aweful hard when you're not the only person in your head, but things could be so much worse.
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Post by searching_for_solace » Fri Feb 01, 2008 6:09 pm

please help me. There is something I want to do for a friend but it's complicated.

http://buslist.org/phpBB/viewtopic.php? ... 04#2983904

there's the topic link

I need advice. Warning it's rather long. It does mention sexuality breifly but I don't tink it needs a spoilier for anything.
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Post by ultimate starshine » Fri Feb 01, 2008 7:11 pm

i cooked some food for my mate becuase she ran out and has no money :)
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Post by Chaocontrol6 » Fri Feb 01, 2008 7:17 pm

I remember opening the door for a friend of mine, and with a pleasing smile she said "Thank you" that always warms me up :)
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Post by tanz » Fri Feb 01, 2008 11:09 pm

i bought some food to my friend because she was hungry and she didn't have any money.
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Post by amyfairy » Fri Feb 01, 2008 11:32 pm

not today, but i bought my housemates favourite chocolate and left it outside his door with a note saying i'm around if he ever wants to talk, because he was sad.

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Post by Binayshee » Sat Feb 02, 2008 12:17 pm

helped a neighbor dig their car out of the snow

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Post by Blake 1 » Mon Feb 04, 2008 10:55 pm

I sent an encouraging email to a friend who is trying to quit smoking.
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Post by funkymusic » Sun Feb 10, 2008 12:36 am

I've been making little cards that say happy things ("Smile," "Have a nice day," "Someone loves you," etc). I'm planning on scattering them around in random places at my school on Valentine's Day.

Also, I've been doing my absolute best not to lose my temper at a friend who (in my opinion) deserves my lost temper. If that makes any sense...

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Post by ultimate starshine » Sun Feb 10, 2008 4:02 pm

I supplied my mate with cigarettes all weekend becuase she cant afford any as her student loan has gone wrong :)
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Post by Holi » Mon Feb 11, 2008 9:29 pm

I paid the bus fare for person I didn't know very well, so she could get home, otherwise she would've been stuck.

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Post by amyfairy » Tue May 20, 2008 11:34 pm

I bought my housemate some chocolate because she was stressing over an exam she has tomorrow.

I bought another housemate a sugary drink to help clear his hangover (ha!)

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Post by amyfairy » Tue Jun 10, 2008 11:34 pm

I bought my housemate ingredients so that she can make some kind of pasta... I have very little money, but she has even less and she needs to eat so I did what I could to help.

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Post by hedgepig » Sun May 17, 2009 12:34 pm

I just found this thread and it's lovely :)

My friends and I always used to try and do a random act of kindness once a day and I am going to start up again.

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Post by PLAIN JANE » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:21 am

I gave my lunch to a co-worker cause he had no money..
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Post by daisy_chain » Mon Jun 01, 2009 5:12 pm

I bought my housemate a bag of her favourite sweets when she was stressed about exams.

I put a note under my friend's door saying how much i appreciate her.
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Post by VowsOfSadness » Fri Jun 05, 2009 4:24 am

this may or may not count but it still made me feel good lol

I put away the dishes (which I'm supposed to do but never do without a fight) but today I just did them while I was home.

Also I cleaned up a bit.

And yesterday I held the groceries for my mom because she was complaining about her back. I didn't even badger her about it lol... me & my mom not the greatest relationship but still. I'm taking it easy on her lately
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