*The Thoughts Thread*

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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*The Thoughts Thread*

Post by marshmallowfluff » Fri Nov 11, 2005 7:24 pm

Hi everyone.

Ok well i had this thought which is probably a stupid idea but i thought i'd try it out. I hope this is the right place for this topic.

You write down what your mind is telling you, whether its good or bad and then you can put your feelings towards your thoughts and challenge them.

I just thought that this might work as everyones thoughts matter and the bad ones need to be defeated and shared and the good should be shared and allowed to grow. It might help to untangle all the thoughts in your head if you just write exactly what your mind is saying.


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Post by Strange_Panda » Fri Nov 11, 2005 8:09 pm

Oooh...I like that idea, a lot!

Thank you for the idea!

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Post by marshmallowfluff » Sat Nov 12, 2005 12:07 pm

glad you like the idea panda :) hugs are always always always okay!


you are stupid and horrible and no one likes you. everyone at school hates you, everyone at work thinks you weird and your family think you're a pshyco. EVERYONE hates you! you're so damn pathetic
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Post by Blake 1 » Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:01 pm

I hate myself I hate myself I hate myself. You are worthless and you deserve to die. You don't deserve anything. You're wasting everyone's time. No one cares about you and no one loves you.
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Post by Aly » Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:20 pm

This is what my head is telling me right now:
Right now, I love you, life isnt great, far from it. To be honest, you've kind of messed some good stuff up again, but you know what? That happens, and now you're trying to do the right thing. Right now, you're coping in the healthiest, most useful way you know how. You're discussing it, thinking over it and taking your time. You're not beating yourself up about it, you're not letting me beat you up about it. And, right now, I love you for that.
Stuff with Tim got messed up, you just now need to be breave and tell him exactly how you feel, that you were just reaching out cause yesterday sucked. You have to. And, you know what, you'll feel great afterwards. You know you will. And with Ehren, just, go for it, what have you got to lose? You're 15! LIVE A LITTLE! You know how to stop life getting out of hand, so, do what your heart is telling you to do. Don't hold back, don't make decisions as if they're going to affect the rest fo your life. Not about Ehren and Tim anyway, just live life and have fun! You'll regret it if you dont.
Remember that I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH. Because, Aly, you are a fantastic person. Whatever I sometimes tell you, however I sometimes try and make you feel, you are wonderful. And you should remember that, because it is o-so true. Just ask Gi or Hol or any number of other people!

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Well, if the rain come round and it don’t come out, then I’ll never have to speak again,
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Post by VowsOfSadness » Sat Nov 12, 2005 10:21 pm

What my anger is saying: *SI*
Youre so stupid I hate you I hate you I hate you. I'm going to rip out all your hair and beat you up. I want you to hurt everyone wants you to hurt YOU DO EVERYTHING wrong. EVERYTHING. The only thing you do right is breathing, and people wish you did that wrong to.

What my mind is saying:
AManda you really need a break. You need to take some time off work and home and spend time away somewhere at the movies, take yourself to eat, buy yourself some nice bath soaps and take a rest ALONE. You need to be away from work and all these people who think you never do anything right. There must be something you do right.

The reality: not going to get out
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