Very Su

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

Moderators: Spidey, noldo

Post Reply
User avatar
the_lady_in_black
creating your space
creating your space
Posts: 157
Joined: Wed Dec 28, 2005 4:13 am
Location: pluto
Contact:

Very Su

Post by the_lady_in_black » Wed Jan 18, 2006 4:11 am

I need so advice
i dont know what to do
i feel so alone
but i guess im not
i seem more out there then normal
Just need help coping i guess

User avatar
NobodyToYou
board admin emeritus
board admin emeritus
Posts: 17634
Joined: Sat Feb 12, 2005 6:03 am
Gender: Female
Location: USA

Post by NobodyToYou » Wed Jan 18, 2006 5:17 am

I wasn't sure exactly how to answer the poll, so I guess I will answer here instead.
No, please try not to SU. Try everything else first. And when you have tried everything else, try it all again. Because life CAN get better and I don't want you to miss the good parts.
If you are thinking about SU, then you need to get help for yourself. Talk to a T, call a hotline, go to the ER (or A&E, depending on where you live). Do what it takes to get some help.
You deserve a chance at a good life, and it IS possible, even when you can't see it.
Please take care of yourself and get the help you need.
:star:

guest1

Post by guest1 » Wed Jan 18, 2006 7:09 am

Please be careful - life may seem at its worse, but there is so much ahead and so many possibilities.

Just like Nobody said - call and talk to someone - or post more here and maybe you can also find support here at BUS

:star:
.

User avatar
rainy day
busaholic
busaholic
Posts: 69852
Joined: Sun Jan 26, 2003 7:25 pm
Gender: female
Location: castleford

Post by rainy day » Wed Jan 18, 2006 1:07 pm

please be careful and take care of yourself.
You laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at you because you're all the same.

User avatar
Tamrick
forum moderator emeritus
forum moderator emeritus
Posts: 9761
Joined: Sun Apr 28, 2002 1:00 am
Location: South Africa

Post by Tamrick » Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:30 pm

Please find someone you can talk to or phone an emergency number if you are truely suicidal. Suicide shouldn't be an option in my opinion (and I have attempted SU before) Things can go wrong so easily. Usually people want to kill themselves to stop the pain, when really it would be better to have less pain and still be alive. Try to get some help, its really important. What is causing pain now will eventually stop, but once you die, you cannot come back.
“A Sunrise is God's way of saying, "Let's start again.”
― Todd Stocker

User avatar
the_lady_in_black
creating your space
creating your space
Posts: 157
Joined: Wed Dec 28, 2005 4:13 am
Location: pluto
Contact:

Post by the_lady_in_black » Wed Jan 18, 2006 11:19 pm

Thanks everyone for the advice and stuff
its just so hard i know that sounds like whining but i dunno
my friend amanda is doing so well she has stoped si and is getting help
but i cant do that i guess im not strong enough :(
Meghan
My name is Meghan.. thats about it
<br clear="all">
<img src="http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/count_hugs ... y_in_black" height="40" width="240" title="HUGS">
<br clear="all">
*HUGS* TOTAL!
<a href="http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/hugs.cgi?& ... lack">give the_lady_in_black more *HUGS*</a>
<br><small><a href="http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/gethugs.cgi">Get hugs of your own</a></small><br clear="all">

http://www.myspace.com/meghanakapink

<a href="http://www.powerpets.com/signup.asp?rfID=777808"><img src="http://images.powerpets.com/banner/b5l.gif" alt="Power Pets - The Greatest Virtual World site on the Internet!" border="0"></a>
(this site helps me it keeps your mind off things)

User avatar
beachgirl
bus conductor
bus conductor
Posts: 5061
Joined: Sat Feb 07, 2004 6:12 am

Post by beachgirl » Thu Jan 19, 2006 5:18 am

We all get better at different paces. Just because you aren't ready to stop SI right now doesn't mean that you won't be able to someday. I'm sure you are doing your best; just take gentle care of yourself.

(((Hugs, if okay)))
Susie
We all have our time machines. Some take us back, they're called memories. Some take us forward, they're called dreams.

My place: A Little Camouflage and Glue

*Official Card Carrying Member of Club Konfusion*

User avatar
the_lady_in_black
creating your space
creating your space
Posts: 157
Joined: Wed Dec 28, 2005 4:13 am
Location: pluto
Contact:

:D

Post by the_lady_in_black » Thu Jan 19, 2006 1:45 pm

***Hugs*** I like hugs
My name is Meghan.. thats about it
<br clear="all">
<img src="http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/count_hugs ... y_in_black" height="40" width="240" title="HUGS">
<br clear="all">
*HUGS* TOTAL!
<a href="http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/hugs.cgi?& ... lack">give the_lady_in_black more *HUGS*</a>
<br><small><a href="http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/gethugs.cgi">Get hugs of your own</a></small><br clear="all">

http://www.myspace.com/meghanakapink

<a href="http://www.powerpets.com/signup.asp?rfID=777808"><img src="http://images.powerpets.com/banner/b5l.gif" alt="Power Pets - The Greatest Virtual World site on the Internet!" border="0"></a>
(this site helps me it keeps your mind off things)

Post Reply

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 65 guests