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lordtakemeway · Post by **lordtakemeway** » Fri Sep 30, 2005 10:22 pm

I thought i had it all under control then school started and no matter what or where i am i have to cut i just feel the need. my mom thinks she understands me cutting but she doesn't, i mean i dont wanna blame her but i cant help but blame her. how can i make myself realize that its not her that makes me feel the need of cutting. somebody anybody please this time i really need some good advice cause i feel like im losing control of my life. nobody around me really understands and it makes me wanna cut even more.
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Cellardoor · Post by **Cellardoor** » Sat Oct 01, 2005 12:38 am

im so sorry its all going wrong again, thats so lousy. im also really sorry but i dont have any really good advice, i wish i did so much but i dont... sorry...

but rememer that you have everyone here on bus to understand, even if no one around you does, thats a million times batter than nothing right? and here at bus everyone like actually really DOES understand, theyve been there u no? anyway, i hope your ok, stay safe... el xxx

kankuro · Post by **kankuro** » Sat Oct 01, 2005 6:40 am

sad to hear, i know what its like, my dad likes to think he understand why i do what i do, but i can tell from his reactions. if you need to talk to someone, i can try and understand drop me a PM

mallie · Post by **mallie** » Sat Oct 01, 2005 4:35 pm

Feeling the need to cut has nothing to do with other people - it is your reaction to your overwhelming feelings. It doesn't matter where the feelings come from, but feeling that you need to cut is something that is inside you.

Having no one around you understand what is going on can be a really distressing situation to be in. Have you thought about talking to someone who would understand? A counsellor or therapist perhaps? Just knowing that there is someone you can talk to who understands and won't judge you can be a huge comfort.

~*~Broken Dreams~*~ · Post by **~*~Broken Dreams~*~** » Tue Oct 04, 2005 1:35 pm

I was the same thing but now it is getting worse. I dont know how to stop. My boyfriend left me last night and told me he would be back after I got help and I stopped cutting. Please help me to stop and please help? I am in counseling but I need somewhere I can talk other than at my meetings. Also I am in FIC group in Schoharie. Hope I can get the help I need now.

lordtakemeway · Post by **lordtakemeway** » Thu Oct 06, 2005 3:46 am

I really wish i could help you but im running into the same problems with my boyfriend we've been jumped down each others throats so much here lately about my cutting. so if you can find somebody to help us both i will jump up and down for joy. guys are so confusing about what they think their gurls cutting. so help us both please

~*~Broken Dreams~*~ · Post by **~*~Broken Dreams~*~** » Thu Oct 06, 2005 1:05 pm

A friend of mine is trying to hook me up with someone that used to be a cutter. I can find for you if you want.

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