when soeone is mean

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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when soeone is mean

Post by youdontknowme » Mon Jul 13, 2009 8:54 pm

what do you guys do when soeone is being mean to you
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Re: when soeone is mean

Post by treasure » Mon Jul 13, 2009 10:12 pm

i ignore them or move away from the situation. then i tend to cry or be upset a bit about the situation. then hopefully i forget it and move on.

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Re: when soeone is mean

Post by zombiepeople » Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:19 am

I usually get really upset, but try to ignore the situation until I can be alone, and then I usually end up crying about it, even though I hate to admit it.
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Re: when soeone is mean

Post by Spidey » Thu Jul 16, 2009 8:17 pm

If someone is being mean to me, I generally just leave the situation. I don't have time in my life to deal with that kind of bullshit.
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