How do you beat your urges? Examine how you beat the last one so it can help you beat the next one.
I turned up the music, I spoke to the pets, I drew, I read, I talked to friends, I waited it out, I did it!!
Did I identify what feelings were leading me to want to SI?
Yes
If Yes - What were they, and how did I figure them out?
Apathy, uselessness, a general hopeless feeling, almost a..boredom
I muttered aloud words that suited my emotional state
What coping skills did I use to deal with these feelings?
I socialized, I distracted myself, I connected with animals, I reconnected with creativity
Were these coping skills the most effective I could have used?
In an empty household, yes
If No - What coping skills got me through?
Why do I think they worked?
They halted the boredom, they made my mind and hands busy
How can I deal with these feelings more effectively next time, before the urge to SI sets in?
Draw everyday, stop withdrawing into myself (get out there and talk to friends daily!).
After.. BEATING an Urge
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