My daughter........

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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My daughter........

Post by kookie33ray » Fri Apr 17, 2009 11:56 pm

Just found out my 13 year old daughter SI's and i want to be an active mom who doesn't just shove it to the side. I want to deal with it but she doesn't ! So I am at a loss....... [/quote][/b]
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Post by Roxi » Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:49 pm

hi kookie33ray ... If I were you I'd check out the family and friends section of the board and read some of the info there :)

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Post by kermit » Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:59 pm

I agree, check out the family and friends board :) I think it's really good that you don't just want to push it aside.

Make sure you take care of yourself as well as your daughter

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Post by Licentia Poetica » Tue Apr 21, 2009 9:46 pm

Just have to echo the others, we have a special "family and friends" section for you specifically.

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:redstar: the time to tell a person you care is now :redstar: the paper crane chain of hope :redstar:

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