hugs, pm's, and band-aids

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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hugs, pm's, and band-aids

Post by RJAEangel » Sat May 08, 2004 4:20 am

hey guys...right now I really need 3 things. I deffinetly need hugs because I'm so depressed right now I want to die, I really need private messages so I can know people really do care about me, and I need a big band-aid for my heart...to make the pain go away. ~Rhonda
"I'll lend you the shirt off my back, a shoulder to cry on, kleenex if needed, ears to listen with, the food off my table, and my life for yours just to be with you for one more day." ~me

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Post by angelic212 » Sat May 08, 2004 4:59 am

hey sweetie you can have as many hugs from me , and i want you to know that i care about you . you can add me to your msn list if you want , my msn is angelfishy21@hotmail.com i dont mind you adding me to your list i m here if you want to talk eventhough righ tnow im not in a good place but i can listen to you

hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs


love always maria

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Post by JadedMortality » Sat May 08, 2004 6:26 am

:1hug3: :1hug3: :1hug3: :1hug3:

If you want to talk my Messenger handles are in my profile.

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And you can't fight the tears that ain't coming
Or the moment of truth in your lies
When everything feels like the movies
Yeah you bleed just to know you're alive
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Post by Midnight Tigress » Sun May 09, 2004 5:28 am

When I saw the subject, it reminded me of a metaphor I use with my best friend who also SIs.
One time on AIM when she really wanted to cut, I told her... something like this:

Her: "It hurts so much"
Me: "well then... let me be your Band-aid."
Her: "this is too big a pain for a meer band-aid to fix"
Me: "Well, even if I can fix it all up, and make it all better, I'm your band-aid all the same. Band-aids may not heal big, deep cuts... but they can make them smaller, keep them from getting infected or worse. They can fade scars."
Her: "...*sniffle*"
Me: "...so then... let me be your band-aid?"

...that was the last time she felt like SIing.

*sniffle* sorry for the sob-fest.


So, anyways, back to the point, lol.
BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!x1,000,000!!!
anyone can feel free to IM me, my AIM s/n should be in my profile.
As for a band-aid...
...I'll be your band-aid...
so weak...

"I hurt myself today,
to see if I still feel.
I focus on the pain,
the only thing that's real..."

~NIN, Hurt

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Post by the_voice_told_me_to » Sat May 15, 2004 1:30 am

*hands over all the hugs she owns* *digs the bandaids out of the drawers and hands them over too* * starts making new hugs*

Feel free to pm me.

Becky
"Stop blowing holes in my ship!!!" - Captain Jack Sparrow

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Post by amyfairy » Mon May 17, 2004 6:53 pm

:1hug: :1hug: :heart: :1hug: :1hug:

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Lots of Hugs going your way

Post by Seeshellz » Tue May 18, 2004 2:55 am

I want to send so many hugs to you that you lose count.
HUGS ARE IMPORTANT!!!

I'm new and I don't know how to private message you. I'm sorry.

I have a big box of bandaids too.

HUGSHUGSHUGSHUHSHUGSHUGSHUGSHUGSHUGSHUGSHUGSHUGSHUGS

Love, your new friend, Shelley

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