not worth it

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Solemn Rurouni » Fri May 07, 2004 9:42 am

I've been reading all teh different posts from the different people, an dit makes me think, everything with them is so much worse than mine, why am I even here????

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Post by ~Georgie~ » Fri May 07, 2004 9:56 am

Each and every persons problems are big to themselfes you cant compare your to other peoples. If you have a problem its important to you and you want to get help on it.Thats where bus comes in to help you, this boards isnt so everyone can compare there problems. Its so people can seek help or advice.

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Post by Laura » Fri May 07, 2004 12:06 pm

Hiya :wavey:

Georgie is exactly right - nobody here is going to tell you that your problems don't matter or aren't "bad enough". I too sometimes look at people who have had all sorts of dreadful things happen in their life and I haven't.... but it's the way you're feeling that matters.

You are very welcome here, and I hope you'll feel more part of it soon.
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Post by Solemn Rurouni » Fri May 07, 2004 5:24 pm

I feel better already.
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Post by plantt » Fri May 07, 2004 5:46 pm

*nods* many of us have felt/do feel that way... n i agree too... problems n pain n life... r things that just can't be compared.
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Post by JadedMortality » Sat May 08, 2004 6:33 am

Hi Rach.

A problem isn't measure by the depth of the wounds, or the reactions to stress etc. You have to take care of yourself, and if being here helps that then great! Dont think that you have to compare yourself to anyone else...Work on your own recovery sweetie

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Post by Solemn Rurouni » Sat May 08, 2004 7:11 am

everyones so nice here. :1hug3:
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Post by ~Georgie~ » Sat May 08, 2004 9:44 am

:) :1hug:

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Post by Solemn Rurouni » Sun May 09, 2004 8:16 pm

I'm doing good, actually, you?

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Re: not worth it

Post by limestone » Thu May 13, 2004 6:43 pm

Solemn Rurouni wrote:I've been reading all teh different posts from the different people, an dit makes me think, everything with them is so much worse than mine, why am I even here????

RR :cry:
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