tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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by Agape in Apathy » Sat Feb 14, 2004 12:01 am
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Rain
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Finding a stream while walking through the woods
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Laying in bed and taking comfort in the warmth of being under the covers
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Music
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Having the privilege of looking up in the night sky to see stars
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Farms
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Beagle puppies
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My mother's homemade chicken or turkey soup
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is it you i want or just the notion of your heart to wrap around
so i can find my way around
safe to say from here you're getting closer now
we are never sad cause we are not allowed to be
rain rain go away come again another day
all the world is waiting for the sun
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by kodora » Sat Feb 14, 2004 4:22 am
Hot showers
Kitty Cats
Hugs
E-mail
Monster Garage (the T.V. show)
Doing something nice for someone
I hear a voice
"Your must learn to stand up for yourself
Cause I can't always be around"
He says
When you gonna make up your mind
When you gonna love you as much as I do
When you gonna make up your mind
Cause things are gonna change so fast
All the white horses are still in bed
I tell you that I'll always want you near
You say that things change my dear
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by gui hong » Sat Feb 14, 2004 6:36 pm
I love this thread
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Finishing a hard workout
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Dancing around, just feeling the music
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Lavender bodywash
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Playing with babies and little kids
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Talking to a friend you haven't heard from in a bit
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Rain
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Homemade chocolate chip cookies
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by tomwg » Sun Feb 15, 2004 1:56 am
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chocolate chip cookie dough
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grilled cheese sandwhiches
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"I remind myself that tenacity is easier when you have no choice."
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"NEVER, EVER LET GO."
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by plantt » Wed Feb 25, 2004 4:09 am
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kitties
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getting a few things done that needed done
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by PassingCloud » Wed Feb 25, 2004 6:05 pm
tomwg wrote: grilled cheese sandwiches
mmmmmmmmmmm.... now there's an idea.
I really like this thread
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cartoon movies that give you that fuzzy feeling and make you sigh happily
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a good book that keeps you enraptured all night long if need be
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snowflakes drifting slowly to the ground and covering everythign in a soft white
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hot chocolate with marshmellows in it
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plants in your apartment that start blooming
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teddy bears
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an unexpected call from a friend when you're feeling down (still waiting for that one... hehe)
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and last but not least: cool threads like this one.
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[I'm talking about my life.][I can't seem to get that through to you.]
[I'm not just talking about one person,][I'm talking about everybody.]
[I'm talking about form, I'm talking about content.][I'm talking about inter-relationships.]
[I'm talking about God, the Devil, Hell, Heaven!]
[Do you understand?]
[Finally?]
(one flew over the cuckoo's nest)
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by plantt » Thu Feb 26, 2004 6:37 am
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furry kitties
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movies that manage to make my brain shut up for a bit
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t who puts up with me
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by tomwg » Fri Feb 27, 2004 12:31 am
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snow covered mountians
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getting a new client signed
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by plantt » Fri Feb 27, 2004 1:57 am
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making it to work
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getting things done that needed done
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having a reply on my place thread
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having a nap
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getting a card from joyce with puck pics in it
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by reallycreamed » Sat Feb 28, 2004 11:15 pm
ice cream ---mmmmm
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by plantt » Sun Feb 29, 2004 4:23 am
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my favoritest blanket
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froggie jammies(now well-worn) from a busser
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the sound of traffic in the rain
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by plantt » Mon Mar 01, 2004 8:08 am
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my very own place thread where i can ramble to my hearts content
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kitties who tolerate much petting n pestering
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by tomwg » Tue Mar 02, 2004 4:22 am
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cooking
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"I remind myself that tenacity is easier when you have no choice."
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"NEVER, EVER LET GO."
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by plantt » Tue Mar 02, 2004 5:34 am
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a t who admits when he's made a mistake. n who's willing to put up with me.
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a tv that makes noise so it doesn't feel quite so lonely in here
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by ~Claire~ » Tue Mar 02, 2004 5:11 pm
sunshine, you appreciate it so much more when there has been none for so long
And chocolate mmm
Claire xx
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by ~Claire~ » Fri Mar 05, 2004 7:56 pm
Getting cards and letters in the snail mail from people you love
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by eyeris » Sat Apr 17, 2004 11:53 am
* a surprise, slobbery dog-kiss when you feel blah and down
* I've been in bed all day, down, and I hear my dog clicking his nails through the house, until he appears in front of me w/ his squeaky, doggy newspaper wagging his whole body
* waking up and realizing I slept for more solid hours than my sleep meds. knock me out for
* a new book
* listening to a cat-bird's song
* skipping class and sleeping instead
* anything not crappy in the cafeteria
* starbuck's mocha, no whip. . . hmmm
* using post-it notes
* new pens
* new markers
* an unexpected kind word about a difficult ceramics project
thanks for this post, I'm not sure I've used brain power to think about anything good in a while. Even if this is really old, thanks.
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by plantt » Sun May 02, 2004 2:38 am
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being with my parents n not feeling like shit
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big windows
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going to the grocery store alone n not completely dreading it
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yard sales
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a dog that lemme pet it n it's owner didn't look at me odd
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frappicinos n i dunno how to spell that
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turnip n skittles
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not having to fight strong su or si urges atm
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eyeris bumping this thread up
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