Place to cry

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Re: Place to cry

Post by zyn » Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:09 am

:(
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Wednesdays » Fri Sep 30, 2011 1:01 pm

I lost a really good place, with really good friends, and it's my own fault. I mess up everything that's good.
Half of her is silver,
Half is lead.
I do not explain it,
I say what she said.

Her bones are rubber,
Jade, or ivory.
Three are gray,
She told me.

She had no body,
At all, she said.
I believe she is
Better dead.

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Re: Place to cry

Post by zyn » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:19 pm

*hides under blankets*
"If knew what I thought I wouldn't need to make anything."
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Re: Place to cry

Post by styled_wrong » Fri Oct 07, 2011 10:39 pm

:cry:
scars are tattoos with better stories
it's hard to answer the question whats wrong, when nothing is 'right'
Not all scars show. Not all wounds heal. Sometimes you cant always see the pain someone feels
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Re: Place to cry

Post by RG » Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:33 am

:bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad: I cry here because I cant or wont let myself on the outside
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Just Pomegranates » Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:13 am

:bsad:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Lynds » Sat Apr 14, 2012 7:09 pm

:shakehead: I just want to cry from all the anger, frustration and sadness...but I wont let myself while you're here. I wish you'd just leave me alone. :blfrwn:
"She would never know, because he would never tell her. Somehow if she’d known the worst parts, she couldn’t have gone on being a haven for him… He needed her ignorance to hide in. Yet at the same time, he wanted to know and be known as deeply as possible. And the two desires were irreconcilable"
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Eva » Wed Sep 26, 2012 1:53 pm

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Re: Place to cry

Post by noldo » Thu Sep 27, 2012 9:15 pm

I feel really sad but can't cry irl so I will do it here :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Kaleb » Tue Oct 02, 2012 12:25 am

I can't cry irl right now, but I think I'll just stay here for the forseable future..... =(
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Eva » Mon Oct 29, 2012 10:38 pm

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Re: Place to cry

Post by tears1315 » Wed Oct 31, 2012 11:30 am

I wish I could just stop crying, but life doesn't ever seem to cut me a break
Since you ask, most days I cannot remember.
I walk in my clothes unmarked by the voyage,
Then the most unnameable lust returns
Even then I have nothing against life


Without pain, there would be no suffering,
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To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows,
without it, there is no way of life.


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Re: Place to cry

Post by Eva » Sun Dec 30, 2012 12:07 pm

:cry: Feeling so sad and lonely.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by PokemonGeek » Tue Jan 01, 2013 12:53 am

Another year goes by and just proves to me that I AM gonna die alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :cry: :blfrwn:
I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love
I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live,
I've got all my love to give, and I'll survive
I will survive
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Never knew I had such a lesson to learn
I'm feeling good from my head to my shoes
I know where I'm going and I know what to do
I've tidied up my point of view
I've got a new attitude!
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Re: Place to cry

Post by RG » Wed Jan 02, 2013 7:02 am

I cant cry so I will do it here :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Birdie » Thu Jan 03, 2013 8:24 am

You don't know what one little reply would've meant to me. What it could have prevented.
I know you don't know me very well, but you mean so much to me and i'm dying for your approval, for your attention.
I play that song over and over again just to hear your voice.
I don't know what it is about you, I just...love you.

Please? I can't take this.
Please love me.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by zyn » Wed Jan 16, 2013 12:25 am

*curls up*
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Just Pomegranates » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:35 am

:bsad:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by meadow14 » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:53 am

I am finishing the tears I started in therapy today.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Stawberry_Lollipops » Wed Jan 23, 2013 2:31 am

There just isn't enough tears in the world for this :cry: :cry: :cry:
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