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Re: Place to cry

Post by Licentia Poetica » Sat Feb 13, 2010 12:24 pm

:cry:
:redstar: the time to tell a person you care is now :redstar: the paper crane chain of hope :redstar:

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Re: Place to cry

Post by stripysocks4christ » Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:50 pm

:cry: :cry: :shakehead:
"Love does not make the world go round... It’s what makes the ride worth while"
"Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly"

"Let Go and Let God"
"God will never let us fall without a plan on how to save us"
"For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" – Philippians 4:13

"I only lied so I didn't have to see the tears of disappointment in your eyes"
"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

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Re: Place to cry

Post by Annybelly » Tue Feb 23, 2010 7:39 pm

(edited to add a LA trig)
*LA


Yes, I'm clever.
No, I don't need you to point it out.
Yes, I am fucking pissed off.
No, I don't need you staring.
Yes, I do hate myself.
No, I won't ask for help.
Yes, It is partly down to you, and all your little friends.
No, I won't give you the satisfaction of knowing it.

Yes, I don't know what, where, when, why or how either.


I'm a mess
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Re: Place to cry

Post by stripysocks4christ » Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:51 pm

:blfrwn: :blfrwn: :blfrwn:
"Love does not make the world go round... It’s what makes the ride worth while"
"Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly"

"Let Go and Let God"
"God will never let us fall without a plan on how to save us"
"For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" – Philippians 4:13

"I only lied so I didn't have to see the tears of disappointment in your eyes"
"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

xx Kitti xx

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Re: Place to cry

Post by Lynds » Sun Feb 28, 2010 10:39 pm

:shakehead: :cry: :blfrwn:

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"She would never know, because he would never tell her. Somehow if she’d known the worst parts, she couldn’t have gone on being a haven for him… He needed her ignorance to hide in. Yet at the same time, he wanted to know and be known as deeply as possible. And the two desires were irreconcilable"
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Heidi4DBT » Mon Mar 01, 2010 8:59 am

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Re: Place to cry

Post by ReineDuSommeil » Wed Mar 03, 2010 10:42 pm

I couldn't cry today, even though my eyes were welling up, and I was listening to the song I love and makes me think of my (now ex) beautiful girlfriend. And I couldn't cry. I just can't. I need to, but it just doesn't happen =c I just seem to hollow out and seem spaced instead....
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Understand » Fri Mar 05, 2010 1:16 am

:1cries: I had a tough doctor's appointment today. I cried there and I'll cry here too. Not coping atm :1cries:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by calypso » Sat Mar 13, 2010 12:35 am

:cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by VowsOfSadness » Wed Mar 24, 2010 2:00 am

:( :cry: :cry: :cry:
*Challenges welcome*
I always love a :lpurpstar:

I woke up this morning, I suddenly realized we're all in this together.

Drop by my place & say hi :)
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Rodwy » Wed Mar 24, 2010 10:40 am

:cry: :blfrwn: :cry: I've been through so much already, why does there always have to be more? :cry: :blfrwn: :cry:

I can't take it anymore, cryings all I have left. :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by stripysocks4christ » Mon Mar 29, 2010 9:15 pm

even tho i cant cry IRL, i can at least cry here...

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"Love does not make the world go round... It’s what makes the ride worth while"
"Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly"

"Let Go and Let God"
"God will never let us fall without a plan on how to save us"
"For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" – Philippians 4:13

"I only lied so I didn't have to see the tears of disappointment in your eyes"
"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

xx Kitti xx

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Re: Place to cry

Post by stripysocks4christ » Thu May 06, 2010 8:01 pm

please help me...

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
"Love does not make the world go round... It’s what makes the ride worth while"
"Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly"

"Let Go and Let God"
"God will never let us fall without a plan on how to save us"
"For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" – Philippians 4:13

"I only lied so I didn't have to see the tears of disappointment in your eyes"
"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

xx Kitti xx

:heart: :ylwheart: :grnheart: :blueheart: :lpurpheart: :blueheart: :grnheart: :ylwheart: :heart:

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Re: Place to cry

Post by strider 151 » Thu May 06, 2010 8:43 pm

why???? :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :argggh: :argggh: :argggh:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by one out of none » Thu May 06, 2010 10:25 pm

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Re: Place to cry

Post by volta » Fri May 07, 2010 1:50 am

i'm afraid that if i start crying, i won't be able to pull myself together.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by breathing » Fri May 07, 2010 4:32 am

The more I learn and the more that I read, the more I get angry. I can't stand this anymore!!

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Re: Place to cry

Post by trewheather3 » Sat May 08, 2010 2:29 am

Why can't you just accept that Im here now? Why must you ruin my already broken life? :shakehead: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by 5th section » Mon May 10, 2010 1:09 am

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...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by mande » Tue May 11, 2010 5:04 pm

:blfrwn: :blfrwn: :shakehead: :shakehead: :bawl: :bawl:


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