The Worry Doll Thread

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Post by Stefani140 » Tue Jun 30, 2009 3:42 pm

I am worried that your not here yet. You always tell me when you'll be later than normal, you always tell me when something is going to keep you away. And you didn't. And I'm worried that something is wrong, that your sick, or were in an accident. Or, worst of all, that you just won't be back and this will be your way of just abandoning me for good.
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Post by xStarBright » Thu Jul 09, 2009 5:12 pm

I'm worried that it'll be awkward to accept his gift of chocolate.
Wait, I'm just worried it'll be awkward.

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Post by VowsOfSadness » Sat Jul 11, 2009 5:14 am

i'm worried I'll fall back in love with him
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Post by Stefani140 » Tue Jul 21, 2009 4:08 pm

I'm worried about having this conversation. I know I have to cause the situation can't happen again because I can't deal with it. But I can't help but worry.
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Post by one out of none » Tue Jul 21, 2009 6:28 pm

I'm worried about losing my job.
I'm worried about not finishing my thesis in time, and it being really bad.
I'm worried that my fiance will get sick of me.
I'm worried about having no friends.

*tries to leave worries in thread*

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Post by snowangel_03 » Tue Jul 21, 2009 10:06 pm

I'm worried no one will ever love me
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Post by guest567 » Tue Jul 21, 2009 11:20 pm

I'm worried about my nanny.
I'm worried about my parents.
I'm worried that Thursday evening will be awkward.
I'm worried no one will like me on Saturday.

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Post by amyfairy » Tue Jul 21, 2009 11:22 pm

Dream wrote:II'm worried no one will like me on Saturday.
I already *know* I like you.

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Post by Artemisia » Thu Aug 06, 2009 8:57 am

everyone is so positive. I live in a country of contradicitions and extremities. They are extremely poor and some excessively rich. My idol is Angelina Jolie, the only celeb I follow (religiously - i might add (shamefully)) :tongue: and I want to be like her saving the world - but for me it's through teaching and psychology (irony). And I see people suffer daily - with a variotion of problems, from poverty to AIDS, schizophrenia to mental retardation, from stress from work, frustration with the front door or a broken car and anger at having lost a pen. In comparison, these things seem so minimal, and they are. But I'm a strong believer in if that's how you feel you should acknowledge and express it (if you can). I've found nothing more damaging than saying, "well I'm not dying of AIDS, or fearing for my life in Sudan so I best get over it". BUT I'm worried that I'll forget what things make me happy, and how to be happy and if I do keep these reminders, I'll forget how to acknowledge when I'm sad...I don't know how to balance these. What if I never learn? :tslug:
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Post by badgirl22 » Thu Aug 06, 2009 7:32 pm

wow you are already on the right path if you can see and understand these things. I believe that everyone can understand and learn from themselves and that no one can forget how to see themselves when they are sad.
I dono if I am making any sense but I just want you to know that things will be ok.

I worry that I am unlovable, fat and so sad that I can't be helped. I worry that I will never get over being bipolar and that that is what they will tell me I am forever. I worry that my T> will give up on me just like the others. I worry I cannot climb the stairs at my t's office because of my muscle weakness. I worry that I am not good enough and that my life doesn't mean anything.
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Post by jadestarwalking » Fri Aug 07, 2009 3:45 am

I am worried that I will lose it when I go back to school and see my ex.
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Post by Artemisia » Fri Aug 07, 2009 8:52 am

badgirl22 wrote:wow you are already on the right path if you can see and understand these things. I believe that everyone can understand and learn from themselves and that no one can forget how to see themselves when they are sad.
I dono if I am making any sense but I just want you to know that things will be ok.

I worry that I am unlovable, fat and so sad that I can't be helped. I worry that I will never get over being bipolar and that that is what they will tell me I am forever. I worry that my T> will give up on me just like the others. I worry I cannot climb the stairs at my t's office because of my muscle weakness. I worry that I am not good enough and that my life doesn't mean anything.
-Badgirl22
thanks :) that really is reassuring :) you're life means something because you are you, and because you have helped me (and many more) if therapists have given up on you, then they are not worthy of their training. No therapist should ever do that - that is their failing not yours. I'm bipolar and have an eating disorder too. i think that I'll never get over these things sometimes, and other days i feel differntly. Sometimes i cling to these labels because they make me who I am, but then i realise, that for the most part, i make them what they are. with meds and therapy, bipolar can be managed. Statistically eating disorders and personality disorders take the longest time to treat. Give it time. :1grhug:
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Post by Artemisia » Fri Aug 07, 2009 9:37 am

i'm worried that i'm not going to get into Psych honours. How do i explain that i can do this - i am a walking textbook of various diagnoses and have experienced more than most (sorry 4 arrogance) :oops: but when compared to fellow students, well most are pretty sheltered. I might not have all the training in the world but this is something i know i can do. i hate these applications because they don't let the boards get to know who you are. :oconf: what if i don't get in?
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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Fri Aug 07, 2009 1:56 pm

i am worried i am slipping back into my old routine of being closed in my own apartment and not getting out.

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Post by jadestarwalking » Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:54 am

I am worried that I am not going to be able to handle real life again........
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Post by Feeorin » Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:56 am

I worry that, because me and rachelle are no longer together, I'll no longer be able to see my baby girl again =/

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Post by Artemisia » Wed Aug 12, 2009 12:12 pm

maarg. much much work to do - gotta start on my thesis and i'm too preoccupied with SI urges. arg. can't even think what work i've gotta do...
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Post by snowangel_03 » Wed Aug 12, 2009 3:43 pm

I'm worried I won't ever get better.
I'm worried my daughter will turn out like me.
I'm worried I'll be by myself for the rest of my life.
I'm worried what will happen to me if I leave D.
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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Tue Aug 18, 2009 5:30 pm

i worry that i wont be able to control my ed
i worry about the constant food comments when im with family

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Post by fragmentedxdream » Sun Aug 23, 2009 8:29 pm

i'm worried that i will never be able to feel like i am really there and that i will always feel disconnected from reality
"...occasionally I wished I could walk through a picture window and have the sharp, broken shards slash me to ribbons so I would finally look like I felt." - Elizabeth Wurtzel

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