The *hoping* thread..

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by xCheerUpFailurex » Fri Jul 25, 2008 4:51 am

I hope to make it through tonight with a sound mind.
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Post by Beasty » Fri Jul 25, 2008 10:29 pm

I hope that all these long days of wishing have come to an end. I hope that my desire will finally be realized tomorrow. I hope this with every fiber of my being.
Please, let all this wishing and praying pay off.
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Post by Rorah » Mon Jul 28, 2008 5:00 am

I hope I can have my hug from you, I hope to hear I love you from your lips to me again.

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Post by icecap » Mon Jul 28, 2008 9:07 am

I hope I can sleep this afternoon to get caught up from what I'm missing now.

And I really hope I can have a good relationship with my Dad.
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Post by 5th section » Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:45 am

I hope I wasn't too late
...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
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Post by Inthebox » Fri Aug 01, 2008 8:32 am

I hope I can get through this terrible time without more damage to myself and my family, that I can just feel bad - without the SI and SU.
"We think the point is to pass the test or overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. The healing comes from letting there be room for it all to happen: Room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy." Pema Chodron

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Post by calypso » Wed Aug 13, 2008 4:16 pm

I hope all our shows go ok. I hope no-one makes comments about scars...

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Post by the edge of the world » Sat Aug 23, 2008 8:28 pm

I hope I don't have seasonal depression.

I hope I never go back to how depressed I was.

I hope somebody nice will ask me on a date someday (before I die would be nice -- I like to think I'm less repulsive than my corpse will be). And love me even though I'm me.

I hope I get all A's this semester.

I hope I get a big scholarship real fast here, because it hurts me too when people bicker about money, no matter how I'm told it doesn't involve me.

I hope my little brother grows up a whole lot nicer than he is right now, despite my stepmom.

I hope I don't do anything too stupid that could badly injure anyone.

I hope I'm useful to the world.

I hope that car I almost hit yesterday learned not to turn in front of other cars and make them screech on their brakes.

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Post by theunspoken » Sun Aug 24, 2008 4:58 am

I hope I don't freak out on my next family vacation.
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"And whose fault is that?"
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Post by steady hands » Tue Aug 26, 2008 1:50 am

I hope that someday i'll be able to get through all of this.

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Post by theunspoken » Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:27 am

I hope my transcript doesn't get lost again.
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"Why are you so negative?"
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Post by VowsOfSadness » Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:47 am

I hope I find courage & get the help I really need.
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Post by Rorah » Wed Aug 27, 2008 6:22 am

I hope I can figure out what to do with my life in the future.

I hope I can find the courage to face my family and not let them rule my life.

I hope he knows that I'm sorry for crying.

I hope he and I can be ok in the future and have a normal friendship.

I hope he can know that I love him, and trust him...and that he can tell me he feels the same.

I hope I can take the steps I need to I make my dreams occur.

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Post by Kiki_in_LA » Mon Oct 27, 2008 6:19 am

I hope I will have the courage and strength to go see the psychologist tomorrow
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Post by kalayla » Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:07 pm

i hope i can control my thoughts

i hope i will stay SI free for more than a week
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Post by ambivalent red » Mon Oct 27, 2008 9:36 pm

i hope im not pregnant
i hope i can go to a hospital
if not i hope i can get rid of these thoughts
i hope my pdoc sees that i need help
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There's no where to hide
From what's in your mind - It's a Ghetto
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Post by ambivalent red » Mon Nov 03, 2008 6:36 pm

I hope it all works out because I'm scared.
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There's no where to hide
From what's in your mind - It's a Ghetto
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Post by fadingbutterfly » Thu Nov 06, 2008 10:28 pm

I hope you'll still love me tomorrow.

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Post by arianwen1174 » Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:16 am

I hope I can love myself someday. I like, even love, some things about myself but do not love myself.
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Post by KLove24 » Wed Nov 19, 2008 3:46 am

I hope one day I can forget he existed
I hope one day to be happy with what I have
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