Candys Coping Thread

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Candy » Sat May 24, 2008 8:39 pm

I am doing alright. I wrote in my journal and it helped me alot.Then I took a nap for awhile and then I had dinner. I am feeling prettty good today,just for the cold that I have. My boy-friend will be over later,not sure what we are going to do. NO SI so far and that is sooo great. I have been using my coping skills and it has helped me alot. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be ok. I will be back on the bus later on. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun May 25, 2008 3:53 am

I am doing pretty good. My boy-friend and I went out for awhile,now we are watching t.v.,and relaxing. After he leaves I will be going to be,cause I am getting tired. NO SI tonight and that is great. I had a great day and I used my coping skills. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am going to have a good day for myself tomorrow and do positive things for myself. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun May 25, 2008 4:12 pm

I am doing alright. I went for a walk and that helped me alot. I am washing the floors and watching t.v. I am starting to feel better with this cold,which is a good thing. NO SI so far and that is great. I am feeling pretty good today. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am going to enjoy my day. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun May 25, 2008 7:24 pm

I am doing alright. I already had dinner and then I did the dishes. I am going to relax till my boy-friend gets here. I am having a good day and I am enjoying myself. NO SI so far and that is great. I am feeling pretty good. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon May 26, 2008 3:40 am

I am doing alright. My boy-friend and I watched t.v.,and relaxed. He went home cause he is not feeling well. I am taking it easy and watching a movie. NO SI tonight and that is great. I have to clean my apartment tomorrow and do positive things for myself. My nurse will be over Tuesday after I get home from program,cause tomorrow is a holiday. I am feeling pretty good and using my coping skills. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon May 26, 2008 5:05 pm

I am doing alright. I got my cleaning done and then I went for a walk. I just got done writing in my journal and it helped me alot. My nurse will be over tomorrow,cause today is a holiday. NO SI so far and that is great. I am watching t.v.,and relaxing. My boy-frieind will be over later on. I am using my coping skills and it is helping me alot. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later.taking care of myself, :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon May 26, 2008 10:45 pm

I am doing alright. I had a good day so far. I am just relaxing and waiting for my boy-friend to get here. NO SI so far and that is great. I have been using my coping skills and it is helping me alot. I go back to day treatment program tomorrow,and I am looking forward to going in. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am feeling pretty good. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue May 27, 2008 3:46 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v.,with my boy-friend and after he leaves I will be going to bed,cause I have to get up early for program. NO SI tonight and that is great. I am feeling pretty good and I had a great day. I am looking forward to going to day treatment program tomorrow and my nurse will be over afterwards to do my medications. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue May 27, 2008 8:09 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program. I am just waiting for my nurse to get here and do my medications,and hopefully go for a walk. My boy-friend will be over later on. NO SI so far and that is great. I have been using my coping skills and it has helped me alot. I am feeling pretty good today,just tired. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed May 28, 2008 1:50 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v.,and relaxing. My boy-friend is in the hospital cause he is not feeling well. He will be alright. I am feeling pretty good,it is hard to be alone,but I am using my coping skills and it is helping me alot. NO SI so far and that is great. My nurse came over and did my medications for me. I have program tomorrow and later on I will be going to see my boy-friend. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed May 28, 2008 3:34 am

I am doing alright. I have been watching t.v,and relaxing. I talked to my boy-friend and he is doing alright. NO SI tonight and that is great. I have been keeping myself and doing positive things for myself. I have day treatment program tomorrow and later on I will be going up to see my boy-friend. I will watch tv.,for awhile and then I will be going to bed. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed May 28, 2008 8:12 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program. I am relaxing and writing in my journal. I will be going up to see my boy-friend later at the hospital,not sure when he will be getting out. I know it is hard for me to be alone at night,cause I am use to being with him. I just need to keep myself busy and do positive things for myself. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu May 29, 2008 12:30 am

I am doing alright. I wrote in my journal and it helped me alot. I went to visit my boy-friend at the hospital,he is doing alright. I am not sure when he will come home. I just want him to get better. I am going to relax and watch t.v. tonight. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu May 29, 2008 2:59 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v.,and relaxing. I talked to my boy-friend and he is doing fine. He is feeling pretty good. I am feeling pretty good. NO SI tonight and that is great. I have day treatment program tomorrow and then I will be meeting with my therapist. I had a good day today. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be going to bed soon,cause I am getting tired. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu May 29, 2008 8:46 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist. I went for a walk and it helped me alot. I talked to my boy-friend and he is doing alright,not sure when he will be coming home. I am going to relax and do positive things for myself. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri May 30, 2008 1:56 am

I am doing alright. I took a nap for awhile and now I am watching t,v, I already talked to my boy-friend he is doing fine. It is hard to be alone,when I am use to having him here. I have been using my coping skills and I feel better. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri May 30, 2008 4:00 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v.,and relaxing. I talked to my boy-friend on the phone,he is doing alright. I feel so lost without him that I do not know what to do with myself.but I want him to get better too. I am feeling ok. NO SI so far and that is great,it has not been easy for me,but I have been using my coping skills. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am going to watch t.v.,for awhile and then go to bed. I already took my medications,cause I feel anxious tonight and I do not need a panic attack to start,that is why I came on here. I will be just fine. I will be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri May 30, 2008 4:01 pm

I am doing alright. I got alot done so far. I already wrote in my journal and it helped me alot. I will be going to go out with a friend for lunch and then I will be seeing my boy-friend later at the hosptial. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am feeling pretty good so far,just feeling loney,but I will be ok. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat May 31, 2008 12:00 am

I am doing alright. I went out for lunch with a friend and I had a good time. I came home and relaxed for awhile. Then I went up to the hospital to see my boy-friend,he is doing alright,and he will be home Monday. I am going to relax and watch t.v. NO SI so far and that is pretty good. I am feeling pretty good,just miss him though. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later.taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat May 31, 2008 3:03 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v.,and taking it easy. I talked to my boy-friend and he is doing alright. I am going to my mother's in the morning to visit and then the rest of the day is mine to enjoy. I am feeling pretty good today. NO SI tonight and that is great. I am going to watch t.v.,for awhile and then go to bed. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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