Candys Coping Thread

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Candy » Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:17 am

I am doing alright. Thanks for the nice messages that you sent me. I am feeling pretty good. I am watching t.v.,with my boy-friend and taking it easy. He is sleeping over tonight so that is great. NO SI so far and that is great. Tomorrow is the day I will be 43 years old :star: I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have been using my coping skills,so that is great. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Apr 08, 2008 4:35 am

I am having a great night so far. My boy-friend is sleeping over,so we will be going to bed real soon. I am feeling pretty good. I am going to enjoy my day tomorrow and I am taking the day off from program,so is my boy-friend. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. Be back on tomorrow sometime. taking care of myself. Happy Birthday to ME!!! :star:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Apr 08, 2008 3:52 pm

I am doing alright. I wrote in my journal and have been using my coping skills. My boy-friend had to go home for awhile and he will be back in a little while and then we are going out. I am going to enjoy my day and have a great time. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Apr 08, 2008 11:08 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day so far. My boy-friend took me out for dinner at Pizza Hut,and then we went to Walmart for awhile. Now we are going to relax for awhile. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am feeling pretty good. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:57 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening with my boy-friend and I enjoyed my birthday. He went home to get some sleep and I will be doing the samething soon. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I am looking forward to going in. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow after program.taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:04 am

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program today. I did some positive things for myself,I did not get a chance to write in my journal,but I will write in it tomorrow after I get home. NO SI so far and that is great. My boy-friend and I had a great evening,then he went home to get some sleep. I will be doing the samething soon. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I have to see my therapist as well. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:23 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great talk with my therapist and a great day at program. I am writing in my journal and it is helping me alot. NO SI so far and that is great. My boy-friend is coming over later,so it will give me a chance to get things done that I need to. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am feeling pretty good. I will be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Apr 11, 2008 4:28 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening with my boy-friend,we went to a craft store and then Walmart,we had a great time. Then we came back here and watched t.v. He just left to go home and get some sleep,I will be doing the same thing soon. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be doing positive things for myself tomorrow and then my case-manager will be over in the afternoon. I will be just fine. Be back on tomorrow sometime. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Apr 11, 2008 11:40 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day so far. I met with my case-manager and we had a great talk. I also wrote in my journal and that helped me alot. I took a nap for awhile and now I am waiting for my boy-friend to come over. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing.I am feeling pretty good. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Apr 12, 2008 2:42 pm

I am doing so-so. I had a bad night,cause my boy-friend and I got into a bad fight,and I slip with SI. I know it was not his fault,I need to get a better handle with my behavior and my emotions. NO one can do it for me. I will be alright. I just need sometime to get myself back on track. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be busy doing positive things for myself today. I will be just fine. Be back on later on. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Apr 12, 2008 7:30 pm

I am doing alright. I took a nap for awhile which I needed. Then I wrote in my journal and it helped me alot. Now I am going to watch t.v.,and get something to eat. My boy-friend will be over later on,and I hope it is a better night then last night. I will let eveyone know what happens later on. I am feeling so-so,but I will be ok. I will be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Apr 12, 2008 11:58 pm

I am doing alright. I am still waiting for my boy-friend to get here,he is running late. I am just watching t.v,and taking it easy. NO SI so far and that is good. I am not sure what we are going to do tonight I just hope everything goes ok. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Apr 13, 2008 5:11 pm

I am doing alright. My boy-friend and I went out last night.We got back late so that is why I did not post last night. I am feeling pretty good. I am going to do positive things for myself today. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Apr 13, 2008 8:35 pm

I am doing alright. I had a good day so far. I took a nap for while and then I have been keeping myself busy. I did not write in my journal today,but I will tomorrow after I clean my apartment. NO SI so far and that is great. My boy-friend will be over later on so I can relax for awhile. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Apr 14, 2008 6:24 am

I had a good night so far.My boy-friend just left to home and get some sleep. I will be going to bed real soon. NO SI so far and that is great. I have cleaning to do tomorrow,then my nurse is coming over. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on tomorrow.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Apr 14, 2008 9:01 pm

I am doing alright. I got my cleaning done and then I took a nap for awhile. My nurse came over and did my medications for me. I already had dinner and did the dishes. I also wrote in my journal and it helped me alot. NO SI so far and that is great. I am going to relax for awhile and my boy-friend will be over later on. I have day treatment program tomorrow,and I am looking forward to going in. I will be just fine. Be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Apr 15, 2008 4:38 am

I am doing alright. I had a great night with my boy-friend. He just left to go home and get some sleep. I will be doing the samething soon. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I have to meet with my therapist as well. NO SI so far and that is good. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow sometime. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Apr 15, 2008 8:04 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist. I am going to do some things for myself and lay down for awhile till my boy-friend gets here. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on the bus later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Apr 16, 2008 5:11 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening with my boy-friend. He just left to go home and get some sleep,and I will be doing the same thing soon. NO SI so tonight and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I am looking forward to going in. I will be back on tomorrow sometime. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Apr 16, 2008 8:37 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program. I wrote in my journal and got a lot of things done around here which were positive. I am going to lay down for awhile till my boy-friend gets here later. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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