Candys Coping Thread

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Candy » Mon Mar 17, 2008 4:31 am

I am doing alright. I have been keeping myself busy today.I went shopping with my boy-friend and the rest of the day we took it easy.I going to watch t.v.,and then go to bed. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am feeling pretty good today,my moods are getting to me,but I will be alright. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Mar 17, 2008 3:23 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great night sleep and NO SI either. I have been cleaning my apartment and getting things done around here.My nurse is on vacation so I did my medications this morning. I am going to enjoy my day today. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:23 pm

I am doing alright. I got my apartment cleaned and then I took a nap. I already had dinner and did the dishes. I am watching t.v.,with my boy-friend and taking it easy. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I am looking forward to going in. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Mar 19, 2008 12:53 am

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist. I came home and took a nap. My boy-friend and I are watching t.v.,and relaxing. I have not written in my journal for awhile,due to my hand,but it is starting to feel alot better. So hopefully soon I will be able to write. NO SI tonight and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:49 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and the groups went great. I am going to relax for awhile till my boy-friend gets here. NO SI so far and that is great.I have not written in my journal for awhile due to my hand and I am having trouble getting myself back into,any suggestions will be helpful. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Mar 20, 2008 4:12 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening with my boy-friend. He just left to go home and get some sleep. I will be doing the same soon. I am feeling pretty good. NO SI tonight and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I am looking forward to going in. I will be just fine. I will be back on sometime program. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:02 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist. I am going to relax and take it easy till my boy-friend comes over later on. I am feeling pretty good. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. NO SI so far and that is great. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:44 am

I am doing alright. I am just watching t.v.,and relaxing. My boy-friend could not make it over tonight,cause he has to go to the hospital for a test,so he will be over tomorrow. I miss him alot,but I am talking to him on the phone. It is hard cause I am use to having him here,but I will be alright. I am using my coping skills and keeping busy. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Mar 21, 2008 3:10 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great night sleep and no SI either.That is great. I am going to do positive things for myself today and relax. My boy-friend will over later on. I am having trouble getting back into my journal and I do not know how to start. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Mar 22, 2008 4:37 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening with my boy-friend. We went out for awhile and then came back here to watch t.v., He went home and I am watching t.v. NO SI so far and that is great. I will be going to be soon,getting tired. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Mar 22, 2008 9:10 pm

I am doing alright. I have been doing things around the apartment to keep myself busy. I did not write in my journal again,and I have been having a hard time getting back in to it,but I know that I will eventually. NO SI so far and that is great. I am watching t.v.,and my boy-friend will be here in a little while. I am just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:48 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great Easter. I went to my parents for dinner and now I am spending time with my boy-friend. I hope everyone here is having a wonderful Easter!!!! I am feeling prettty good. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. NO SO so far and that is great. I will be just fine. I am going to clean tomorrow and finish the rest Tuesday,and my nurse is also coming over tomorrow. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by one out of none » Mon Mar 24, 2008 7:48 pm

Hi Candy, I haven't been around much because things have been a bit difficult and busy for me. But I thought that I'd just drop in and say hi, I hope that you're doing well, and things are going ok for you.

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Post by Candy » Mon Mar 24, 2008 9:06 pm

I am doing alright. I got my cleaning done and my nurse came over and did my medications. I am feeling pretty good. I am sorry that you are having a rough time and I am always here for you. You can PM anytime. I am going to relax till my boy-friend gets here. I have day treatment program tomorrow,I am looking forward to going in. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later.taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Mar 25, 2008 4:03 am

I am doing alright. I had a great day today. I am watching t.v.,with my boy-friend and after he leaves I will be going to bed. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I have to see my therapist,so I am looking forward to going in. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Mar 25, 2008 11:40 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist,she helped me alot. I took a nap for awhile,cause I was tired. Now I am relaxing and watching t.v.,with my boy-friend. NO SO so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:19 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening with my boy-friend,we watched t.v., and relax. He went home to get some sleep,and I will be doing the same soon. I am feeling pretty good. NO SI tonight and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Mar 26, 2008 11:07 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program. I still have not written in my journal yet,and it has been getting very frustrating for me,cause I enjoy it and it helped me. Since I hurt my wrist I just can not get back in to it. Any suggestions will be grateful. I am feeling pretty good. I am just watching t.v.,and waiting for my boy-friend to come over here. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Mar 27, 2008 4:11 am

I am doing alright. I had a great night with my boy-friend,we watched t.v.,and took it easy. He went home to get some sleep,and I will be doing the same thing soon. The urge to do SI came over me tonight,but I fought the urges by reading and coming on here helped me alot. I will be just fine. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I also see my therapist. I am going to relax and watch t.v.,till I go to bed. hanging in there. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Mar 28, 2008 2:24 am

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist. When I came home I took a nap,cause I was tired out. Now I am watching t.v.,with my boy-friend. I have to get blood work done tomorrow and go to the dentist. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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