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uhmm..kinda new at this

Post by einad91 » Fri Mar 07, 2008 3:47 am

okay..hey,
im actually VERY new to speaking about me.. and i was terrified of even thinking that i might have to..
but i never thought..well i never thought someone would find out about what i did..what i do..but he did, and so now ive actually decided 2 face it publicly, and anonymously
and frankly, i hate the word "cutting"..it makes me cringe..and people look at it like that and it hurts...so when my best friend found out, i was so afraid he'd..look down on me..i still am.
so right now..i dont know where else to start. except here.
i just need sumone 2 talk/relate to.
thnx

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Post by funkymusic » Fri Mar 07, 2008 4:09 am

Hey, I can probably help. You can reply here or PM me if you want. I'm trying to do homework though, so I may not respond instantaneously. Hand in there!!

You want to explain it a little more to me?

Be safe!

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Post by disastercake » Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:20 am

the best course of action is usually to provide him with as much information as possible and go from there
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Post by disastercake » Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:21 am

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Post by Chaocontrol6 » Fri Mar 07, 2008 7:11 pm

I kind of know what you mean, when I've talked to open people about myself I always seem to prefer saying "hurting myself" or "wanting to self-injure" rather than "wanting to cut myself". I guess it's just...softer? *shrugs*

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Post by vampirelover » Fri Mar 07, 2008 7:14 pm

hope BUS can help u :moo:
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Post by ultimate starshine » Mon Mar 17, 2008 1:52 am

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