Candys Coping Thread

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Candy » Sun Jan 27, 2008 3:09 am

I am doing alright. I had a great evening so far. My boy-friend and I ordered in, I got a BLT sub and I can not remember what he got. We have been watching t.v.,all day and relaxing. NO SI so tonight and that is great. I did alot of positive things for myself today,and I feel great. I got bad cramps,but I will be alright. I just wanted to let everyone know how how I am doing. After he leaves I will be going to bed,cause I am getting tired. I will be just fine. I will be back on the bus sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

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Post by Candy » Sun Jan 27, 2008 5:42 pm

I am doing alright. I did some cleaning in my apartment and got alot done so far. I had a great night sleep and no SI either which is great. I am going to be doing positive things for myself and relaxing as well. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I just have bad cramps from my period,so I am going to take something for it and I am going to lay down for awhile. I will be just fine. I will be back on the bus later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:34 pm

I am doing alright. I cleaned the bathroom and I washed the floors. Then I took a nap for awhile,cause I was tired. I did a few things for awhile and now I am going to get something to eat. I did not do any SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. My boy-friend will be over later. I will be back on the bus later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:09 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v. with my boy-friend and taking it easy. I have to finish cleaning my apartment tomorrow and then at 1pm I have to go see my doctor for my results of my test. I hope everything comes out alright,then later on my nurse is coming over to do my medications.I am going to relax tonight.After my boy-friend leaves I will be going to bed,cause I am getting tired. NO SI tonight and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I willl be back on the bus sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Jan 28, 2008 5:09 pm

I am doing alright. I got my cleaning done and I also wrote in my journal,it helped me alot. I have to see my gyn today to get the results of my test, I hope everyone thing will be alright. My appt. is at 1:30 pm. I will be alright. My nurse will be over later on to my medications. NO SO so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by one out of none » Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:11 pm

Hi Candy, I just thought I'd say hi, you're doing great with the no si and all. I hope the doctors visit goes well for you today.

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Post by Candy » Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:38 am

I am doing alright. I know I was not much on yesterday,but I was not feeling well. I took a nap for awhile and I am sitting here with my boy-friend relaxing. NO SO so far and that is great. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist,she helped me alot. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. Thanks for the nice messages that you sent me. I will be back on the bus later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Jan 30, 2008 7:57 pm

I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist yesterday. I am doing alright,just not feeling well,due to the cold that I have. I already wrote in my journal and I am just relaxing,till my boy-friend gets here later. I did not have program today,cause it was closed due to the weather. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Feb 01, 2008 4:57 am

I am doing alright. I just wanted to let everyone know know that I am ok, I have been sick with a real bad cold. NO SI at all that is great. I have not been up to anything lately,cause I have not been feeling well. I am taking care of myself. I will be back on tomorrow sometime
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I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:48 pm

I am doing alright. I have not been doing much lately,cause I have been sick. NO SI at all,and that is great. I am just relaxing and taking it easy. I will be alright. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. My boy-friend will be over later. I will be back on soon. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Feb 02, 2008 4:21 am

I am doing alright. NO SI so far tonight and that is great. My boy-friend and I are just watching t.v.,tonight and taking it easy. I will be doing more things for myself tomorrow as I start feeling better,this cold is really getting to me. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

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Post by one out of none » Sat Feb 02, 2008 3:05 pm

Hi Candy, sorry about the cold, that's a pity. I hope you start feeling better soon though, take care.

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Post by Candy » Sat Feb 02, 2008 6:15 pm

Thanks for the nice messages that you sent me. I hope I start to feel better soon,the cold is really starting to get to me. I have not written in my journal for awhile,but with this cold,I do not feel like doing anything. I am laying down and watching t.v. I will be alright. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Feb 03, 2008 5:34 am

I just wanted to say that I am doing alright. I am starting to feel better,the cough is getting to me. NO SI tonight and that is great. I also wrote in my journal as well,it helped me alot. My boy-friend went home to get some sleep,and I will be doing the same thing soon. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on tomorrow.
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Feb 04, 2008 12:49 am

I am doing alright today. I did not do much and took it easy,cause I am having a hard time getting over this cold and cough,it is driving me nuts. NO SI tonight and that is great. I have cleaning to do tomorrow,then my nurse and case-manager will be over later on. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Feb 04, 2008 10:56 pm

I am doing alright. I got my cleaning done and did other things for myself. My nurse came over and did my medications. I feel better than what I did yesterday,the cold really got to me. I am waititng for my boy-friend to get here,we are going to relax tonight. I have day treatment program tomorrrow,looking forward to going in. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I also wrote in my journal and it helped me alot. NO SO so far and that is great. I will be just fine. I will be back on the bus later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Feb 06, 2008 4:14 am

I am doing alright so far. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapsit. NO SI so far and that is great. I have to see the doctor in the morning at program and then my mother is taking me to the doctor in the afternoon. I do not know if I will be on tomorrow afterwards it depends on how I feel. I will be just fine. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. My boy-friend and I are just watching t.v.,and after he leaves I will be going to bed. I did not write in my journal today,but there is always tomorrow,depends on how I feel,this cold is still bothering me. I have to see my gyn tomorrow. I will be just fine. I will be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Feb 07, 2008 2:50 am

I am doing alright. I had a great talk with my doctor today at program,and the groups went great. My mother took me to the doctor this afternoon,and that went great. I came home and I took a nap,cause I was so tired out. I did not write in my journal today,but I will tomorrow. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I am looking forward to going in. NO SI tonight and that is great. My boy-friend is here and we are watching t.v.,and relaxing. After he leaves I will be going to bed,cause I am tired. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by one out of none » Thu Feb 07, 2008 9:57 pm

Hi Candy, I'm really glad that you're doctor is helping and the groups went well. Hope you have a good day tomorrow. Take care.

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Post by Candy » Fri Feb 08, 2008 2:49 am

I had a great day at program today,and a good talk with my therapist. I have off tomorrow,so I will be able to sleep in and do what I want to do. NO SI tonight and that is great. I am going to enjoy my day off tomorrow. Thanks for the nice messages that you sent me. I am watching t.v.,with my boy-friend and taking it easy. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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