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tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by ultimate starshine » Wed Jan 30, 2008 7:09 pm

at the minute, my way of getting rid of the feelings isdoing the "natalie cassidy" fitness DVD

it leaves me really refreshed, takes my mind of everything, and it also allows me to feel good becuase i have done sometng healthy for me

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Post by caged bird » Wed Jan 30, 2008 9:42 pm

exercise is meant to be a really good boost, i've used the gym a few times when i'm really triggered and found it very useful
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Post by Spidey » Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:35 pm

That's really awesome :)

Not only does it keep you fit (which is a good point in taking care of yourself) but no SI as well!

Congrats on the awesome coping mechanism!
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Post by ultimate starshine » Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:10 pm

cheers... its really good, it has heped me to get one day SI free so far :D

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Post by whatever » Fri Feb 01, 2008 3:53 am

that's great! i've sometimes found exercise to be really helpful with my urges/general mood management, too. well done! :star:

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Post by disastercake » Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:25 am

that's excellent, exercise always makes me feel better. I've been thinking about getting a fitness dvd. what does anyone recommend?
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Post by ultimate starshine » Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:14 pm

this one.. LOL

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Post by Roxi » Sun Feb 10, 2008 9:20 pm

I used to live like not even a block away from my virgin active. So whenever i felt urgy or things weren't going great at home with my parents fighting and all- i'd just dissapear to the gym for an hour or so. It was like my place of refuge. lol-- the staff know me so well. i love it here...
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