I'm proud of myself today because....

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Glockenspiel » Tue Dec 04, 2007 10:08 pm

Managed to get a lot of work done.
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Post by Draco Malfoy. » Tue Dec 04, 2007 10:31 pm

I attempted to face my problem. And spoke to someone about it.
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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Wed Dec 05, 2007 3:35 am

I was able to say, though not directly, that I needed a hug from a guy.. and I was able to get that hug from my band director.

I was able to get my feelings out without screaming and cursing out my mother.. when that's what I wanted to do.

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Post by calypso » Wed Dec 05, 2007 8:01 am

I did some EFT when I was panicking.
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Post by Draco Malfoy. » Wed Dec 05, 2007 4:40 pm

I TOLD my mother I needed some help.
I hope she listened.
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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Sat Dec 08, 2007 12:51 am

I played my solo right in Jazz at a gig. When I was begging the Admiral to just cut it out of the song this morning.

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Post by nirvana » Sun Dec 09, 2007 12:10 am

instead of staying angry, i went to the gym for an hour and felt productive and happier. i spent time with my friends.

and let him do the same.
i thought i was a fool for no one, but baby i'm a fool for you.

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Post by Glockenspiel » Sun Dec 09, 2007 4:42 am

I tried calling somebody out of the blue.
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Post by fadingbutterfly » Sun Dec 09, 2007 2:19 pm

Not today but for yesterday instead.
I'm proud of myself because I went to my first OU tutorial and I got through it okay.
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Post by pelagic » Mon Dec 10, 2007 12:36 am

I'm proud of myself because I distracted myself by doing something productive (I got all my Christmas shopping done for all my friends).

I'm proud that I didn't SI yesterday.
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Post by thisshallbeformusic » Mon Dec 10, 2007 12:46 am

that i didn't si and i've had an awful weekend and normally i would've
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Post by amyfairy » Mon Dec 10, 2007 12:53 am

i let myself relax... something that is very hard to do.
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Post by nirvana » Mon Dec 10, 2007 4:06 am

i read seven court cases. four more to go. :)
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Post by kittyfever » Mon Dec 10, 2007 4:34 am

I started working on my paper this morning, and not later..
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Post by PassingCloud » Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:10 am

i am working really hard for school.
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[I'm talking about my life.][I can't seem to get that through to you.]
[I'm not just talking about one person,][I'm talking about everybody.]
[I'm talking about form, I'm talking about content.][I'm talking about inter-relationships.]
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Post by pelagic » Mon Dec 10, 2007 8:36 am

I created a place to help me cope :)
I haven't SIed tonight. :)
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Post by amyfairy » Mon Dec 10, 2007 2:14 pm

i phoned work to see if i could go back to work there over christmas. and i have lots of hours to make about £300.
i hate phoning people, and i hate the thought of going back to work, so i'm pretty proud :D
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Post by calypso » Mon Dec 10, 2007 2:23 pm

I closed the window of the pro-ed site.
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Post by nirvana » Mon Dec 10, 2007 3:07 pm

i'm awake.
i thought i was a fool for no one, but baby i'm a fool for you.

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Post by amyfairy » Mon Dec 10, 2007 5:51 pm

oh, and i've finished my essays :D
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