Strike Back of Secrets! [The Secrets Thread - Read 1st Post]

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Briony » Sun Oct 14, 2007 3:11 pm

I had a one night stand.

The secret is that I didn't feel guilty about it until I thought about telling you.

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Post by marshmallowfluff » Sun Oct 14, 2007 6:18 pm

i am really not okay.
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Post by HakunaMatata » Sun Oct 14, 2007 8:48 pm

I didn't even know his name.
I don't even care anymore. It's like...automatic pilot...
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Post by kissthesky___x » Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:36 pm

sometimes i just wish people would tell me if they like me or not cos it'll save a lot less hassle.

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Post by starcatuk » Mon Oct 15, 2007 4:14 pm

i wish i had the courage to tell him how i feel

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Post by nitewalks » Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:18 am

im stuck in a downward spiral, and no matter how hard i try i cant see the end of this tunnel
Everything will be okay in the end, if its not okay its not the end.

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Post by Beasty » Sat Oct 20, 2007 9:58 pm

I don't want to go to the dance because it would mean wearing a dress. I don't want to wear a dress because it would expose my shoulders, all of my arms, and my lower legs. There aren't any cuts there or anything. I'd just feel naked.
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Post by caged bird » Sat Oct 20, 2007 11:04 pm

i'm scared without you and i'm scared with you - what do i do
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Post by Licentia Poetica » Sun Oct 21, 2007 9:26 am

I would pay anything, take anything, do anything, ANYTHING to make me feel better right now.
:redstar: the time to tell a person you care is now :redstar: the paper crane chain of hope :redstar:

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If we knew each other's secrets, what comforts we should find.
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Post by calypso » Mon Oct 22, 2007 9:43 am

I cut in the hospital emergancy room toilets. I wasn't even there for me. Who the fuck does that??!

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Post by kissthesky___x » Mon Oct 22, 2007 12:23 pm

i'd give up well and truly if people didn't need me to be there for them.

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Post by southsider » Tue Oct 23, 2007 5:10 am

I've been reading your journal for a very long time and haven't ever told you. You're kind of my hero.
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Post by Licentia Poetica » Tue Oct 23, 2007 8:32 am

i need help.
:redstar: the time to tell a person you care is now :redstar: the paper crane chain of hope :redstar:

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If we knew each other's secrets, what comforts we should find.
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Post by kissthesky___x » Tue Oct 23, 2007 1:50 pm

i saved what you sent to me. it means so so so much to me. never give up. we can do this.

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Post by amyfairy » Tue Oct 23, 2007 6:59 pm

i think i have only just had the realisation that it is my life.
at the moment i'm living for others in some aspects, i don't want to disappoint. but it's my life.

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Post by red_viola » Wed Oct 24, 2007 4:03 am

please tell on me.
i'd rather cry then SI..but it never
works that way.

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Post by Callisto » Thu Oct 25, 2007 10:54 am

i feel sick and i hate it purely because i know its not self-inflicted....at least when its self-inflicted it makes me feel more real

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Post by _MessedUp_ » Thu Oct 25, 2007 4:55 pm

he didn't hurt me physically but he's scarred me for life metlaly and emotionally. and he doesn't care
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Post by twinkletears » Thu Oct 25, 2007 6:09 pm

[size=0]ive been emotionally abused, now my head plays all sorts of tricks on me[size=0][/size]
:redstar::redstar::redstar: If you could look past my tears, past the fake smile on my face, see right inside me, feel my pain maybe then you would understand.:redstar::redstar::redstar:Image
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Post by caged bird » Fri Oct 26, 2007 2:50 pm

part of me wants the excuse to give up
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Being almost devastated is horrible because it lingers. But total devastation brings a kind of peace. It lets you give up.
Thieves and Kings: Volume Two by Mark Oakly

The line between normal and crazy seemed impossibly thin. A person would have to be an expert tightrope walker in order not to fall.
Running with scissors - Augusten Burroughs

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