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tools to help you assess your urges before you give in to them, and to help you understand and learn from slips after they happen. by posting here, you're saying that you are serious about exploring the feelings behind your self-harm in depth, whether you're ready to stop hurting yourself or not. to request posting access, click usergroups above and join before and after.

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Post by caged bird » Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:27 pm

frustrating when you want to but know you don't need to isn't it? fwiw i really don't think ringing t is pathetic, or asing for what you want, i think calling him to talk about it would be a really good thing to do. if you're still reluctant to call maybe try some of the dbt skills first, then if they don't work you can call him, say you've tried but not getting anywhere with them


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Post by caged bird » Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:49 pm

well done for ringing, yes defineitly better to ring than to SI, i'm really impressed xxxx
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Being almost devastated is horrible because it lingers. But total devastation brings a kind of peace. It lets you give up.
Thieves and Kings: Volume Two by Mark Oakly

The line between normal and crazy seemed impossibly thin. A person would have to be an expert tightrope walker in order not to fall.
Running with scissors - Augusten Burroughs

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