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Post by pretty » Tue Oct 24, 2006 9:38 am

hot chocolate
kind people
'this is what she says gets her through it,
"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world

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Post by Guest » Tue Oct 24, 2006 5:58 pm

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Post by pretty » Tue Oct 24, 2006 6:11 pm

Yummy hand cream.
'this is what she says gets her through it,
"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world

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Post by plantt » Sat Oct 28, 2006 2:44 am

--music
--my brother
--my cats
--having a decent day after a row of shitty ones
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Post by friarygirl » Sat Oct 28, 2006 2:57 am

Clean sheets and a cosy duvet

Autumn days, crunching through the crispy leaves in the park

The smell of my cat when he snuggles up on my pillow
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Post by plantt » Sun Oct 29, 2006 2:04 am

--getting schoolwork started
--music
--not having a roommate
--slippersocks with buttons from Hazel
--kitties
--pop when you really feel like it
-- trees
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Post by Hisforever » Sun Oct 29, 2006 8:46 am

walking at night with snow falling peacefully

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Post by the edge of the world » Mon Oct 30, 2006 1:08 am

a few:

-- paper fringes from the edge of a spiral notebook
-- scrabble
-- my happy balloon (I blew up a balloon a few weeks ago and drew happy faces all over it and happy faces all over the happy faces, and it's still alive :) )
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Post by onlymeallalooone333 » Tue Oct 31, 2006 11:56 pm

happy things? I like this post i need to be reminded occasionally:
:star: kisses from that special person
:star: the smell of listerene
:star: really yummy food
:star: when my belly button percing looks healthy
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Post by plantt » Wed Nov 01, 2006 5:03 am

--making it through really long days
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Post by pretty » Thu Nov 02, 2006 10:53 am

fruit tea
maltesers
cold bright sunny autum days
hot water bottles
curry & wine
log fires
walking
'this is what she says gets her through it,
"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world

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Post by lotus » Thu Nov 02, 2006 4:30 pm

little ones all dressed in their halloween costumes saying trick or treat and asking for candy

a whole day of alone time after a week of 24/7 company
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Post by plantt » Tue Nov 14, 2006 8:46 am

--brothers
--pretty leaves
--the sound of rain
--Skittles-in-a-box
--good quotes
--working to pull self back up after many days of ickness
--good food
--colorful ribbon :roll:
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Post by susanM » Sun Nov 19, 2006 2:00 am

chocolate
sleep
people who care about me
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Post by friarygirl » Sun Nov 19, 2006 2:37 am

:star: Final Fantasy 7, 8 and bleagghh, forget about the rest. Just add the first 3 Tomb Raiders. Console games fill in a lot of hours and make me feel good. :-?

:star: My kids are both coming home for Christmas after saying they wouldn't be able to. I'm especially looking forward to seeing my son - he's been the one who's suffered indirectly through all the horrible stuff. So Yay - he's coming home!!!

:star: Chocolate. What else?

:star: Lying in bed, knowing it's a weekend so you don't have to get up, listening to the rain pouring down outside and feeling toasty and warm where you are. And taking a *positive* decision to stay there!

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    Post by plantt » Fri Dec 01, 2006 6:08 pm

    --fuzzy socks
    --cats
    --tea
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    Post by susanM » Sat Dec 02, 2006 1:21 am

    making it to the end of a hard week
    the Red Hot Chilli Peppers and Thom Yorke on tv (yay for good music)
    compliments on the new top I wore today :blush:
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    Post by Tolby Bear » Sat Dec 02, 2006 8:18 am

    :blush: :D 8)
    Emoticons
    visiting family
    meeting new ppl.
    having a good day
    ranch dressing
    country gravy
    horse shoes
    pool
    sunset
    iced tea
    since it is approaching that certain day of the year called, "Christmas" allow me to add giving something special to some one.
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    Post by bluegoose » Sat Dec 02, 2006 3:59 pm

    electric kettles (they work fast!)
    fountain pens
    notebooks
    oats (you heard me)
    peanut butter (natural all the way)
    heeeavy leathr jackets .. especially named after cows (mine are named clover and bessie.. but clover's cooler)
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    Post by plantt » Tue Dec 12, 2006 3:01 am

    --colorful paper
    --cats
    --having a working fan in car so don't have to drive with windows down to prevent fogging
    --new slippers
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