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tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by argentiaertheri » Sun Apr 25, 2004 7:48 pm

i'll only blame my cat when it is her fault! she does injure me, far too often really, but she's getting old so it's moer my fault than her's. but i love my baby. :bcatsmile:
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Post by starz4mepleaz » Mon May 03, 2004 1:20 am

i cant blame my cat and wouldnt (i hope). My kitty gets beat up by our other cats cuz shes an indoor cat. Besides if i said she was to blame for all of my SI i would have to get rid of her :( i couldnt do that. -Katie
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Post by Wandering » Fri May 07, 2004 8:18 pm

As fun as this thread is...I think that we could really use SHACA to promote SI awareness....Like if we could come up with T-shirts....honestly....have a art contest on BUS to come up with some cool shirt ideas, sell them and use the proceeds to further NSIAD and other pro-informative SI projects....what do you all think??
Yup good idea. Would also make people realise SI can have fun too...
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Post by Twinky » Wed May 10, 2006 11:30 pm

I know this is now two years on, but I wonder if anyone did make T-shirts?
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Post by marshmallowfluff » Thu May 11, 2006 4:39 pm

AYE!

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Post by whypie » Sun May 14, 2006 5:22 pm

I joined too, woo!
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Post by Seeshellz » Fri May 26, 2006 1:26 am

I joined too! :bcatsmile: SHACA :bcatsmile:
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Post by Scatterbrain » Wed May 31, 2006 8:38 pm

I completely agree!! I love cats and my cat loves me too... :bcatsmile: yay, for not blaming cats unless it is their fault...

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Post by Wandering » Sat Jun 17, 2006 10:04 pm

Wow I'd almost forgotten about SHACA! Though I've not blamed my cat since joining, and she's now gone to kitty heaven, so can't be blamed again, alas!

We should resurrect the T-shirt idea...

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Post by Sky » Sun Jun 18, 2006 9:05 am

Haha, I've been wondering about SHACA for a long time now. I'm glad to see that people still care about it and remeber and all that stuff. I think I used to be a member aeons ago. But I agree that something should be done about the shirts, I'm just not sure what.
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Post by katja » Wed Jul 05, 2006 1:41 pm

I must protest I dont think its fair to shift the blame from cats to rabbits, rabbits are soooooooo cute, and way more innocent than cats!
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Post by Seeshellz » Sat Jul 15, 2006 4:16 pm

I agree Katja, I don't think we should blame any animals really. Just a barbed wire fence or something. :tongue:
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Post by Guest » Sat Jul 15, 2006 8:55 pm

Ha. I said it was just eczema and people seemed to believe me :o

I havn't even got a cat, so
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Post by SarahBee » Sat Jul 15, 2006 9:22 pm

Haha, this sounds great. "Aye."

I don't have a cat to blame, but even so. I won't blame even imaginary cats.
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Post by leemc77 » Sat Jul 15, 2006 11:34 pm

I just got a kitten today. I was at the SPCS and I had some cuts on my arm and someone noticed and said I shouldn't get the cat that did that. I admit - I have used the cat scratched me line before, but will not any longer, I love Vinny too much!

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Post by Seeshellz » Mon Jul 17, 2006 6:25 pm

Vinny is such a cute name Leeanna! You should post some pics of him on Main, we'd love to see what he looks like?
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Post by Quiet little Angel » Sun Jul 30, 2006 12:26 pm

... have never used the cat excuse... cause i love my little kitty... or... no... i haven't used it because noone would believe that our lovely and lazy cat would ever do that :D plus i have plenty of cactuses *spelling* !! so yes i will promise never to use any cat as an excuse :)
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Post by Skyeler » Sun Jul 30, 2006 3:24 pm

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Post by Kaleb » Tue Aug 01, 2006 1:57 pm

I have 15 cats and there mad as hell
but i wouldnt blame them for my si
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Post by not your star » Wed Aug 02, 2006 1:58 pm

I really should have become a member a long time ago. When I think of all the times my kitty has helped me, cheered me up, gotten me through the day, it is unfair to blame him for my own actions. :tongue:
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