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Post by LisaF » Mon Jun 19, 2006 6:09 pm

My sponsor from AA was trying to help me come up with some kind of substitute for cutting, something I can do to keep from doing it. She suggested popping rubberbands on my arm, I've tried that and it doesn't work. I've tried writing on myself with a red marker, all it does is trigger me more, I've tried holding the ice cube in my hand until it melts, that doesn't work either. Cutting paper with a knife or razorblade used to work and then it stopped working, maybe I should try that one again and see if it'll work now...

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Post by holly_in_the_dark » Mon Jun 19, 2006 7:08 pm

Have you tried hitting your pillow?
I might have scars but only the ones inside hurt.

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Post by LisaF » Mon Jun 19, 2006 9:13 pm

holly_in_the_dark wrote:Have you tried hitting your pillow?
I do that when I get in a rage, keeps me from punching the wall and causing any damage (to the wall or myself)... doesn't really help with the SI though.
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Post by VowsOfSadness » Tue Jun 20, 2006 4:30 am

http://buslist.org/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=34500

This is "A Scarily vast list of coping skills"

Go there it will be a big help, it has well over 200 ideas to help you
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Post by Oceanic » Wed Jul 05, 2006 12:27 am

i know this is really weird but -

i used to tweeze hairs from the place i wanted to cut. it would really distract me and had a tiny amount of sharp pain for me to concentrate on.

i know, i know, it's beyond bizarre.......


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