What will your 5 things be?

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by namaste » Tue Apr 04, 2006 12:07 am

1) My teddy, Toffee
2) My violion and sheet music
3) My computer and the internet
4) Lots and lots of good books
5) cheese and biscuits

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Post by pretty » Tue Apr 04, 2006 5:59 pm

1) A book. Because escaping my thoughts is often the best way.
2) My walkman, because when I'm pissed off, angry music, or soothing music, helps.
3) My journal, so I can write things out and make lists, because that's the best way for me to organise my thoughts, and organising my thoughts helps me make sense of them, and making sense of them helps me cope with them.
4) My phone, so I can seek support from actual people if I need to.
5) Chocolate to keep away dementors.
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"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world

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Post by Scatterbrain » Sat Apr 08, 2006 1:22 am

Its really hard to narrow it down to 5...

1. my cat, who is my best friend in the way that only cats can be
2. my computer and the internet to get on BUS a few other sites
3. my iPod, b/c music is another coping skill
4. my Catholic Youth bible, b/c it is awesome
5. Catcher in the Rye and several other books, b/c I love reading
"The impossible just takes a little longer."
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I'm not here/This isn't happening"
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Post by delicateshadow » Sun Apr 09, 2006 3:19 pm

I suppose I can't take my therapist?!

ok, so....

1) Journal and pens .. I am noone if I cannot write

2) Lots of paper, felt pens and crayons .. I have to express myself creatively

3) File of articles and other validating things ... I'm not the only one who feels like this...and that its for a reason...to support compassion for myself.

4) Women who run with the wolves...awesome book....has lots of compassion and supportive ideas....and stimuli for writing...

5) A blanket ... for comfort and security, helps me feel grounded and in my body safely....and to keep warm at night or when it got cold...
In the Dark and the Deep there are truths that can always heal ~ Ken Wilber

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Post by whypie » Mon Apr 10, 2006 5:38 pm

- Someone to talk to, who cares

- suncream

- music

- computer (yes they would have electricity. Trust me.)

- something comforting, like a massive warm quilt or something.
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Post by Callisto » Mon Apr 17, 2006 4:01 pm

1) my teddy bear

2) a pen and some paper so i could write

3) a kettle and some tea and milk

4) a photograph of my loved ones

5) a book of all my favourite poems

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Post by steady hands » Mon Apr 24, 2006 5:20 am

1. a spiral notebook so i could write
2. music
3. my camera
4. a blanket
5. rory


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Post by ~bluehaze~ » Mon Apr 24, 2006 2:33 pm

1. my girlfriend because i'd be lost without her
2. my mp3 player
3. my beads and jewellery making supplies to help me relax
4. Photographs of happy times
5. My dog because she always makes me feel happy

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Post by INTERWIZZ9000 » Mon Apr 24, 2006 3:27 pm

:-?

THIS IS A VERY GOOD QUESTION

I GUESS MY 5 THINGS WOULD BE...

:star: MY HEALTH

:star: MY MIND

:star: MY TRUEST FRIEND

:star: ENOUGH FOOD FOR ME AND MY FRIEND TO LIVE OUT THE REST OF OUR LIVES

:star: A WAY TO GET OFF THE ISLAND (WHEN I GET BORED OF THE ENTERTAINMENT)

OR IS THAT NOT ALLOWED?
:-?
RANDOM VIOLENCE AND TEMPORARY SOLUTIONS GO HAND IN HAND

-----EVERYTHING ABOVE THIS LINE IS MY THOUGHT-----

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Post by VowsOfSadness » Wed Jun 14, 2006 4:14 am

:star: Liz
:star: my teddy bear (which is lost right now :( )
:star: disney movies
:star: my mom
:star: crayons
*Challenges welcome*
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Post by xStarBright » Wed Jul 23, 2008 8:42 pm

* Computer with internet.

* Piano.

* CD's (including DVD's).

* Books, lots of books!

* Thing's that will help me keep and stay clean, and not look "all-over-the-place". Also some casual clothes, but also smart.

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Post by VowsOfSadness » Thu Jul 24, 2008 6:25 am

:star: Liz (still! lol)
:star: my journals to write in & read
:star: books
:star: alcohol.
:star: colored pencils
*Challenges welcome*
I always love a :lpurpstar:

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Post by DecemberLivy » Fri Jul 25, 2008 2:55 am

:ylwstar: my mum
:ylwstar: blank notebook and pens
:ylwstar: alcohol and cigarettes
:ylwstar: books
:ylwstar: a very attractive male :wink:
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Post by icecap » Wed Jul 30, 2008 2:32 pm

:star: My Mom
:star: My Computer
:star: My Therapist
:star: My Teddy Bear
:star: Things to read and write on
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