Abuse For The First Time *PA*

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Abuse For The First Time *PA*

Post by broken_words » Fri Oct 28, 2005 6:45 pm


My mom hasn't hit me in a long time...last time was she stabbed me with a fork on the arm...not on purpose...but yeah...

I told her that my dad is doing drugs agian and she HIT me...i have a bruise on my face (which i cover with like 20 layers of coverup)...what do i do??? What can I do? I just ignore my pain...leave my house...talk ... pretend like i'm okay...


See these tears fallin'?
they're pure and true,
but why can these tears,
be truer than you?


2 weeks si free

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Post by Guest » Fri Oct 28, 2005 7:33 pm

i don't know what to say sweetheart...

I'm always here for you. If you want to talk or need a place to stay. i know we haven't talked in a long time but i still love you and i'm still here for you!

Love Always
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Post by Alethea » Fri Oct 28, 2005 8:31 pm

I'm sorry.
I don't have any advice for you but I wanted to tell you I read and I care.
Sending you hugs if they are okay and warm thoughts.
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Post by katja » Sat Oct 29, 2005 1:46 am

that is a tricky subject to give advice on , just stay safe! an if u need to talk, u know what to do! :1soothe:
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Post by swirlish » Sat Oct 29, 2005 9:37 am

Can I ask how old you are?
Do you have any relatives, teachers, siblings etc. you trust? Can you talk to someone?
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i'm 17

Post by broken_words » Thu Nov 03, 2005 6:55 pm

I am 17... and i don't trust any adults, not even my counsler anymore...

See these tears fallin'?
they're pure and true,
but why can these tears,
be truer than you?


2 weeks si free

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WRITE ON!!!
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Post by dramaqueen90 » Sun Nov 13, 2005 8:38 pm

hi, you gotta talk to someone, even if its 'only a hit' someone like your mum shouldnt do this to you. i was abused by my mum and dad and got taken away which has made my life much better than it would have been if i hadnt. She probly hit you for telling her bout your dad because she didnt wasnt to face the reality of him going back to drugs, im sorry if ive got all this wrong but do talk to someone, im sure it'd be for the best

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Re: i'm 17

Post by Skyeler » Sun Nov 13, 2005 10:03 pm

broken_words wrote:I am 17... and i don't trust any adults, not even my counsler anymore...
I put up with my dad being abusive for a hell of too long.
You know she didn't do it on purpose and that it isn't a one time thing.
You HAVE to tell someone, you owe it to yourself.

That's all the advice I can give you, I never called anyone and I should have trusted someone todeal with him.

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Post by Lovesx3Requiem » Sat Nov 26, 2005 5:04 am

I had to put up with abuse from my mom since i was about 3 to when i was about 14.

I see no benefit in telling anyone, unless you want to create a huge scene and possibly get her arrested.

But you should definitely not pretend like you're okay.

Will she listen if you talk to her about it?
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doesn't listen

Post by broken_words » Wed Nov 30, 2005 7:12 pm

my mom doesn't listen...

See these tears fallin'?
they're pure and true,
but why can these tears,
be truer than you?


2 weeks si free

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WRITE ON!!!
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Post by green » Wed Nov 30, 2005 7:32 pm

You really need to tell someone. You need to talk to an adult who can help you and who will listen to you.... you deserve so much more than this. I'm really sorry things are so tough for you :star:
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