thinking of your future family?

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Post by Harlequin_Tears » Sat Aug 20, 2005 5:54 am

I use it as a coping method a lot. I do sometimes feel a little worse when I think of it because I feel like I'll never make it there but with the support system I've made I know it will happen.

It especially helps with my ED because my boyfriend tells me that there's absolutely know way we can start having children until I'm better and children is what I'm looking forward to most.
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Post by Guest » Sun Sep 04, 2005 1:47 am

Hmmm yes i think of my future family sometimes.


A lover and we get married in a small cerimony with only a couple family members and friends.

We have 3 children (twin girls and a boy)

Alyssa (Aly)
Samantha (Sam)
Daniel (Danny)


We live with our cat and my guide dog in a 4 bedroom condo in Vancouver British Columbia.


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Post by Kaelyn » Sun Sep 04, 2005 11:40 am

I just can't imagine someone that wants to marry me

Sometimes I do think about living in the wilderness,
with a bunch of pets (dogs, cats, a horse) :D
those thoughts make me happy...
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Post by LN7 » Sun Sep 04, 2005 9:57 pm

I dream of what I can't have...still it's a nice dream and one thats wonderful....not gonna share it thought...but yes I dream of my ideal future family.
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Post by treasure » Mon Sep 05, 2005 2:59 pm

i have a family dream deep down but if i think about it all the 'what-ifs?' come up and spoil it. i will probably be alone all my life :-?
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Post by Guest » Mon Sep 05, 2005 3:19 pm

i get all the what ifs too. I probably will be alone cause at this point i dont think i have the capasity to love aother person. I dont even like myself.


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