- how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself?
I will be able to get rid of the anger in my head. - what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation?
It will bring release for a short time,
I can't see anything negative from si other than feeling crap after - how do i want to feel about this in the long run? is hurting myself likely to get me closer to or farther from feeling that way?
I want the pressure in my head to go away, and to find a better way, just heve never so far, - if hurting myself seems like my best option right now, how long will the relief it brings last? what will i do then?
A while, then I usually sleep after - what is something i could do now instead of hurting myself? how will it change the situation i'm in? how long will that change last, and what will i do then?
drink i guess, sighs - how will i feel tomorrow if i hurt myself? how will i feel tomorrow if i do the other thing i came up with?
crap dissapointed, like a failure. - what do i really want to do right now? how can i best honor the self-protective instinct that has me wanting to self-injure right now?
urges aren't necessarily the enemy. they happen for reasons, and they're an expression of a desire to stay alive and stay sane and keep coping. remember that.
More Before Questions To Answer
- Why do I feel I need to hurt myself? What has brought me to this point?
- Have I been here before? What did I do to deal with it? How did I feel then?
- What I have done to ease this discomfort so far? What else can I do that won't hurt me?
- How do I feel right now?
totally fed up - How will I feel when I am hurting myself?
angry at myself, i hate me, - How will I feel after hurting myself? How will I feel tomorrow morning?
like crap - Can I avoid this stressor, or deal with it better in the future?
have no idea - Do I need to hurt myself?
Remember you don't have to answer all the questions if you don't feel up to it
