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Post by xx zeroluv » Fri Feb 10, 2006 12:58 am

so about two days ago my mom told me shes divorcing my dad and now theyr fighting a lot and my moms been crying and its hard for me so if theyrs anyone with divorced parents... got any advice on how to deal?? :cry:
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Post by Skyeler » Fri Feb 10, 2006 5:58 am

MY parents had pretty much the worst divorce in the history of this world.

Just remember none of this is your fault, you can't make it better, you just have to keep yourself safe...

I'd invest in a good pair of earphones.


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Post by Catylyx » Fri Feb 10, 2006 8:51 am

earphones are good. Skye's right about that.

So far i've gone through two..and am watching my mom finally go through the third one........

its not easy i can tell you that right now. But the best thing you can do is be there for your mom...she's going through a tough time as well. Depending on your age and situation depends on whatever say you have with everything...at least so far as i'm aware.

just keep remember this ( i know its said a _lot_ , but its true):

Its. Not. Your. Fault.

none of it...so no worries kay?

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Post by amyfairy » Fri Feb 10, 2006 10:47 pm

my parent's divorce was very bitter.
and i'm really sorry you're going through it.

i'm going to have a think and come back and post
take gentle care
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Post by theboldeditalics » Sat Feb 11, 2006 9:26 am

i'm sorry..

my parents are divorced too.


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Post by Green Beauty » Sat Feb 11, 2006 4:33 pm

My parents are divorced, happened when i was about 11. To be honest it didnt affect me at all. I never remember being upset about it. So i don't have much advice as it obviously hit you differently. Even though my dad blamed me for their divorce you have to realise it has nothing to do with you. I am sorry i can't say much else.. Welcome to bus.

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