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by Jamas » Sat Mar 16, 2013 2:42 pm
I am a failure as a wife, a mother, a woman, and a professional.
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by Just Pomegranates » Sun Mar 17, 2013 10:24 pm
You don't need to insinuate how fat/disgusting I am. I can do that just fine by myself, thank you very much.

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by meadow14 » Mon Mar 18, 2013 1:50 am
You can rot in hell s. I hope you never hurt anyone like you hurt me. Death is to good for you.
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by desperateforgrace » Tue Mar 19, 2013 3:41 pm
*rels triggs* PM, you are such an idiot! Why do you like to argue with atheists and others so much? I know you say you want to show them truth, but come on all they want to do is make you look foolish. I've read the posts. Just leave them alone! Show them love and grace once in awhile instead of always having to prove you're right. If not, just go away. Just go away! *end rels triggs.
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by [iamacliche] » Fri Mar 22, 2013 10:57 pm
i hate your stupid job. i hate the fact you're all lazy and messy and leave me to do everything. i hate you more for the fact i only have 1 day off this next week cos you've basically penalised me for coming home sick today. i mean seriously, what the actual fuck? it's so nice to know that you basically expect me to work when i feel awful. you can tell when you look at me that i'm not well. but no, that doesn't fucking matter. i work my arse off everyday for what? when A took extra days off you never said a fucking word to him or took days off him, so why should it be different for me? i hate how C drove me out of BF but i know in my heart i never should have left. i just can't fucking bare going in tomorrow and having to tell A that she's gonna have to go the wedding on Sat on her own before you're all treating me like shit.
i hate the fact that all that's on my mind now is hurting myself.
fuck you.
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by Just Pomegranates » Fri Apr 12, 2013 9:37 am
You are a snobby bitch. I used to think you were cool - I can still appreciate certain things about you aesthetically - but as a person I don't like or respect you at all. Tons of people have shown you appreciation and you haven't made the effort to return that back to one person. And I know you've lied to me which I severely look down upon as well.
I guess it won't matter soon but I'll still look down on you in the mean time.

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by VerMOZZica » Fri Apr 12, 2013 10:11 am
I hate myself.I am such an f**cking loser.I haven`t done anything with my life.I`ve accomplished nothing.I`m tired of all this fucking bullshit.Why can`t I just be normal!I hate what I`ve done to myself.I am so ashamed of myself.I am nothing
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by capricorn » Thu Apr 18, 2013 10:08 pm
just go get fucked. that is all.
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by TheRockingHorse » Sat Apr 20, 2013 6:35 pm
Talk to me. Help me. Fuck them all. Talk to me. I need you to screw my head on straight, not twist it into a bigger knot.
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by capricorn » Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:41 pm
When I am talking about the homophobia I have experienced in my actual life and you, as a straight girl, decide you don't like the fact that I started off by quoting Stephen Fry and you then start shouting me down to the point I literally have to scream to be heard ... you are not part of the solution, you are part of the fucking problem and you can fucking fuck off.
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"Awake and unafraid."
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"I am haunted by humans."
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"Been trying hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind."
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"It's always darkest just before the dawn. So stay awake with me. Let's prove them wrong."
Rise Against
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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by RG » Thu May 02, 2013 12:16 am
I really love you. It hurts when I see you hurting and cut me out. I just want us to be able to talk again.
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by capricorn » Sun May 05, 2013 4:06 pm
You are actually kind of a douchebag you know that?
Like seriously. Get off of your fucking high horse, stop thinking you're so superior and criticising every little fucking thing.
Also.
The welfare state is not a 'frivolity'.
Saying things like 'you throw like a girl' or calling people 'pussies' IS FUCKING SEXIST, for real.
Just, I am sick of hearing your bullshit opinions.
Also stop treating me like I'm stupid. Gah.
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"Awake and unafraid."
My Chemical Romance
"I am haunted by humans."
The Book Thief
"Been trying hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind."
Lana Del Rey
"It's always darkest just before the dawn. So stay awake with me. Let's prove them wrong."
Rise Against
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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by Just Pomegranates » Sun May 19, 2013 7:39 am
I wish you'd give me that damn book already

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by treasure » Sun May 19, 2013 6:00 pm
i thought i would be talking to my case worker friday, but neither of us could make it.
not that i would have actually said this, though
T, i'm struggling right now, is there any way you can recommend giving me back the therapy sessions? it isn't a frivolity to talk about how i feel or what i can do about it, it's really important for me to feel worthwhile, capable and hopeful, instead of the opposite of all that which is how i feel right now. i know he's part of your company and not a private therapist, but i can't afford a private therapist and i think it is still part of his job to help with whatever a client needs help with. he really helps me, more than you can see.
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by mande » Sun May 19, 2013 11:16 pm
I love you. Thanks for getting me out and being worried about me. And thanks for saying that you love me - it makes me feel better just knowing we picked up where we left off. We'd be a terrible couple, but what we have works. I can tell you things that I can't tell other people, and hearing you talk about anything at all is oddly comforting.
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by Just Pomegranates » Mon May 20, 2013 4:40 am
If that's the type of person you are I'm extremely disappointed and feeling rather ripped off actually.

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by TheRockingHorse » Mon May 20, 2013 11:11 am
Why can't I tell you everything, why can't you fix me. Why can't I stop telling you everything when you obviously don't want to hear it. Please just listen. I hate being so dependent.
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by Birdie » Wed May 22, 2013 8:20 pm
Maybe i'm just blinded by a fog of crazy right now, but I don't know that i've ever felt this way about anyone else....I'll never be the same again. I don't know that I could ever express to you how much I love you.
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