how do you do it? cope.
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how do you do it? cope.
this is my first time on bus. ive been cutting for three years now and am 47 years old. i cut on a daily basis for a long time, so now its been 2 weeks. instead of cutting ive been running 4 miles a day. but i find my head thinking about cutting; seeing it, feeling it, and waiting for the calm to wash over me. how do i get my head to stop going where i should be?
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im sorry i have no answers... but congratulations for not cutting for two weeks thats really great.![:star: :star:](./images/smilies/I5.gif)
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im sorry i have no answers... but congratulations for not cutting for two weeks thats really great.
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firstly, welcome to BUS.
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so...how do you cope? well this is a good place to start as it contains practically every coping method ever thought of. have a look there and around the rest of BUS for a few ideas. Coping is a bit of trial and error - different things work for different people at different times, and the best way is to try a load of them and see what are the effective ones. It's a process that you get better at over time. have a look at the Before & After questions as well - it's a way of looking at the SI urges in more detail and working out exactly what makes you do it.
I hope you find BUS helpful & supportive.
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so...how do you cope? well this is a good place to start as it contains practically every coping method ever thought of. have a look there and around the rest of BUS for a few ideas. Coping is a bit of trial and error - different things work for different people at different times, and the best way is to try a load of them and see what are the effective ones. It's a process that you get better at over time. have a look at the Before & After questions as well - it's a way of looking at the SI urges in more detail and working out exactly what makes you do it.
I hope you find BUS helpful & supportive.
...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
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- Anna James (1984-2007)
son of ultimate starshine / brother of Eisa & Sprink / Birdie's ornithologist / married to Mande / Chey's uncle
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- my band (or more accurately, the band of which I am the bassist) some SI/SU triggers in lyrics...proceed with caution...
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5th Section said it all. Keep trying, find the coping mechanisms that work for *you*. Everyone is different.
I wanted to welcome you to the coping forum![:moo: :moo:](./images/smilies/cow.gif)
And just mention that SI is a symptom of unhappiness, depression, anxiety, or other underlying issues. And, like a cough being a symptom of a cold.. if you treat the cold, the cough goes away a lot easier.
Have you peeked into the long day's arc forum yet?
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I wanted to welcome you to the coping forum
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And just mention that SI is a symptom of unhappiness, depression, anxiety, or other underlying issues. And, like a cough being a symptom of a cold.. if you treat the cold, the cough goes away a lot easier.
Have you peeked into the long day's arc forum yet?
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