Things that make you *try*

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by ComfortablyNumb » Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:55 pm

I try because, somewhere a little piece of me must know that I deserve better than this.

I try because it broke my heart when my ex-girlfriend cried after she found out about the SI...I can never be the reason she cry's like that again.

I try because, my little sister needs me.

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Post by lily_trying » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:46 am

right now, i'm trying because i was reminded by someone how much things got better for them after years of hanging on & surviving, and that has given me some hope & optimism for the future--i admire where they are at now so much, i had forgotten how long it took for them to get there.

....& i want to get there, too, so i try.

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Post by fadingbutterfly » Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:13 pm

-My girlfriend gives me hope and reasons not to give up, even when it seems impossible to carry on.
- The fact that I know things can be better than this if I just keep holding on.
- Believing that there is always hope

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Post by zombiepeople » Fri Jan 25, 2008 12:19 am

I try because my little brother needs me (much as he hates to admit it),
I try because my friends love me,
and I try because there are a lot of younger people in my life who love me, and I want to be a better influence and example for them.
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Post by Licentia Poetica » Mon May 26, 2008 5:18 am

I'm trying now because I think I've realised there's actually something worth trying for.
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Post by Holi » Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:26 pm

I try for my few hours per week, for my cycles home with my friends, for listening to fantastic music, and for the occasional times that just make me glow

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Post by Chaocontrol6 » Wed Jun 04, 2008 12:09 am

The fact that if I keep trying there MAYBE something at the end but if I don't try there will NEVER be anything at the end, so why not give it a shot eh?

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Post by SplinteredGirl » Fri Jun 06, 2008 8:58 am

for my boyfriend.

so i dont have to hide.


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Post by missy83 » Fri Jun 06, 2008 10:48 am

my fiancee'. he's got me through so much, helped me every step and knowing we have so much more to do together. and my pets ofcourse! :D

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Post by mbj » Mon Jun 09, 2008 7:27 am

I try for my God, my boyfriend, and my best friend, who all celebrate my victories and help pick me up when I fall. I try because I am working to accept the truth, deep down, that I am someone who is lovable and worth protecting.
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Post by Roxi » Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:35 pm

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Post by thekklteam » Tue Jun 10, 2008 4:44 pm

For honey, for Mom, for myself. Because if I help myself and get better then I can help others with their lives, be there for the people I love, instead of being so focused on me all the time.

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Post by SarahBee » Mon Jun 30, 2008 10:00 pm

For all the people who care. I try because I know they believe in me and they want me to and know I can fly.
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Post by VowsOfSadness » Tue Jul 01, 2008 6:22 am

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I always love a :lpurpstar:

I woke up this morning, I suddenly realized we're all in this together.

Drop by my place & say hi :)
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Post by vampirelover » Wed Jul 02, 2008 2:27 pm

my mates who are always there for me
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Post by Cuppy » Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:00 pm

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Post by InsrSanityHere » Sun Jul 13, 2008 12:43 am

I try because I see my mother struggle to live life every day and I don't want to end up like her.
In the deepest, darkest hour of the night, admit to yourself that you would die if you were forbidden to write. And ask yourself, the answer, where your heart spreads it roots to the deepest part, Must I write?
If there were no rewards to reap
I certainly would have walked away by now...
...and I still may.

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Post by tears1315 » Mon Jul 14, 2008 9:29 pm

things that make me try are:
my family, more so my dad just becuase i feel like he really needs me.
my girlfriend
and the fact that I want to be better and eventually one day help others

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Post by KLove24 » Mon Jul 14, 2008 9:59 pm

I try because my son deserves so much better than this
I try because I remember watching my mom struggle and how hard it was and I don't want him to do the same with me
I try because deep down I want to be better
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Post by theunspoken » Mon Jul 14, 2008 10:17 pm

I try because when I’m depressed because I know that the episode will pass in time.

I try because I have not gotten around to breaking the windows in my house with my huge bass speakers.

I try because I haven’t finished my book. No, not the last one…this one. And the next.

I try because there will always be the better half of my life waiting just around the corner.

I try because I want to see my favorite bands in concert one more time.

I try because if I don’t then I’ll lose my children, and that’s just not cool.

I try in college because if I don’t then I don’t have insurance, which is unacceptable because meds and treatment are way too expensive.

I try because people will be sad after I’m gone, and I’ll be sad when they’re gone, too.

I try because sadness is only temporary.
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