151 things to do before u si

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Seeshellz » Tue May 25, 2004 4:34 pm

Thanks Cath!!

I really liked the list.
I even printed it out so I can refer to it at anytime!!

:D :D :D

Love, Shelley EH!!
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and really come to understand the lesson you were taught,

you might be able to help someone else who's now

in the phase you may have just completed.

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Post by snowangel_03 » Tue Jun 22, 2004 5:23 pm

Belinda wrote:EAT MILO! it worked the last few times :)
:lol: my friend from australia LOVES milo!!! :lol:
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Post by snowangel_03 » Tue Jun 22, 2004 5:23 pm

shellshell wrote:Thanks Cath!!

I really liked the list.
I even printed it out so I can refer to it at anytime!!

:D :D :D

Love, Shelley EH!!
me too.. might come in handy soon..
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or just some hope that life will be better - magicmum

Hugs & PM's are fine
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Post by crimson_tears23 » Thu Jun 24, 2004 7:24 pm

Thanks a lot for all these great suggestions...they will really help me.


51 days!!! :blush:
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Post by crimson_tears23 » Thu Jun 24, 2004 7:25 pm

Thanks a lot for all these great suggestions...they will really help me.


51 days!!! :blush:
:redstar::star::ylwstar::grnstar::bluestar::purpstar:
Lotsa luv, Jackie
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Razors pain you
rivers are damp
acid stains you
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guns aren't lawful
nooses give
gas smells awful
you might as well live...
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Post by scorpio 88 girl dragon » Tue Jul 27, 2004 7:49 pm

*the material im about to type is kinda *si* related* so this is a warning*

:star: yea so thaxz for the list itill help me from hitting my self n the walls n stuff. :bcatsmile:
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Post by Lyndsie » Mon Aug 02, 2004 7:05 pm

I printed the list and keep it in my purse!

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Post by Themnoria » Sun Aug 15, 2004 9:06 pm

I got one that I just did-Ride your bicycle out around and look for interesting stuff, like bottlecaps and papers and stuff. I found a page of Yo Mama jokes! :o

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Post by jaded melody » Wed Aug 25, 2004 12:52 am

Ive got one- only found this out today.
FRIDGE POETRY!!! You know you can get boxes full of magnets with a different word per magnet and you put them on your fridge or whatever and make poems and sentences. It keeps you entertained for ages. The magnet kits are inexpensive and you can use it with anything metal, not just a fridge.

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Post by limestone » Thu Aug 26, 2004 9:13 am

Jaded_Melody wrote:Ive got one- only found this out today.
FRIDGE POETRY!!! You know you can get boxes full of magnets with a different word per magnet and you put them on your fridge or whatever and make poems and sentences. It keeps you entertained for ages. The magnet kits are inexpensive and you can use it with anything metal, not just a fridge.

Melody xxx
I love fridge poetry and you're right it does keep you occupied for ages!!!!
I lost a few of mine under the fridge... :roll:

have you made any good poems yet melody? :star:

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Post by jaded melody » Thu Aug 26, 2004 9:17 am

Lol well i dunno about "good" poems but theres one in the expressions board called Red Sky which I MOSTLY did with fridge poetry and then edited afterwards to improve it a little. But its mostly the same.
Just beware, its a little triggery. If u check it out lemme know what you thought, okay?

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Post by Lyndsie » Fri Sep 03, 2004 8:33 pm

Thats suchs a good idea. I need that. Maybe i'll make my own. I'm very crative when I wana be.

LOL. i was looking for this list yesterday and couldn't find it. I should have checked this forum. I'm so silly! :)

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Post by Bathelina » Sun Sep 19, 2004 3:26 pm

Wow, that's a really good list. I love it, I'm keeping it for the next time I really want to SI.
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Post by shorty0713 » Sun Sep 19, 2004 9:41 pm

iv done half of those things just because i was bored and some of tem i did before with out looking at this list
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Post by 9mmPrincess » Fri Oct 15, 2004 1:47 pm

1337 933k wrote:lol!!!



cut off the neighbors cats whiskors.

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cut off the neighborhood cats whiskers? reading that just made me sad. cats USE their whiskers, for seeing where they can fit-if their whiskers can fit it means the rest of their body can-their whiskers are essential to them and cutting them off could be dangerous-a cat could go into a place thinking it could fit, and get stuck because it didnt have its whiskers to sense if it could fit properly..

not to mention that thats just plain cruel.

i'd hope ppls lists of t hings to do instead of SI-ing wouldnt include harming another living being-human or animal.

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Post by Bathelina » Tue Oct 19, 2004 8:40 am

satori wrote:I love to imagine myself taking a bat and destroying a house made of glass.
The amount of times I have wanted to do that... it calms me RIGHT down....

Hannah :tongue:
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Post by amerylis » Wed Oct 27, 2004 4:00 pm

This list really helped to give me ideas of what to do instead of SI. :smilecolros:

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Post by Zebraseal » Mon Nov 15, 2004 6:11 pm

This list is the best. There must be something for everyone there.
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Post by spike » Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:02 am

Wow, what a list, I really like it...Kinda makes me want to print it and put it on my wall.

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Post by Sirloth » Sun Dec 19, 2004 12:01 am

thank you thank you thank you!!! I've pretty much memorised this list now, its really helpful.. thank you!!!!


*drink bitter lemon or tonic water (without alcohol) - the bitter taste can give you a bit of a "wake up", if you know what I mean.

*get a big plastic bottle and hit it off a wall repeatedly

thats all i can think of right now hehe

thank you again!

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