I'm proud of myself today because....

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by strider 151 » Sat Mar 19, 2011 1:12 pm

:ylwstar:

i took a friend to my youth group thing last night and i prayed for her
i didnt let my bad mood stay around but prayed instead
i ate a decent breckfast
PBH, Telling my parents, My place - All welcome [hugs, stars, challenges, questions are all ok :gooddeal: :Fade-color

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Annybelly » Sat Mar 19, 2011 1:27 pm

I didn't get upset about not being able to go swimming [my own fault, I know] and I organised something else for us to do instead :D
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Sat Mar 19, 2011 6:55 pm

because I am happy and at peace with many things in my life


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Kaleb » Tue Mar 22, 2011 9:54 pm

I was finally completly honest with myself about something I haven't been for the past few years ....
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Tomorrow is another day to turn it all around
I will stop when I'm ready I'll shown everyone my cards
But for now I'll keep on playing even when the game gets hard.


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by capricorn » Wed Mar 23, 2011 12:45 am

I got a lot of work done...
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by angelic117 » Wed Mar 23, 2011 1:41 am

Awesome congrats, cuz I know it's hard when you dont wanna do something...today i started learning a new piece on violin...i find music so helpful
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Thu Mar 24, 2011 8:01 pm

got more unpacking done and I had a great talk with K which made me feel great!


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by -Apolla- » Fri Mar 25, 2011 6:25 pm

I did all the household work that had been set up for me.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Sat Mar 26, 2011 9:47 pm

I took care of myself


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by nagligivagit » Thu Mar 31, 2011 3:22 am

excellent, Chey, for taking care of yourself. you deserve it in a big way.

I'm proud of myself today because April will be 6 months without SI.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by -Apolla- » Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:12 pm

I was really good at my driving lesson.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Wed Apr 20, 2011 1:28 am

I got lots done


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by zombiepeople » Fri Apr 22, 2011 10:53 pm

I haven't SIed today...I guess that's all I can say:(
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by -Apolla- » Sat Apr 23, 2011 9:25 am

zombiepeople: well done!

I have finally sent that email (I should have sent it a week ago). anyway, I sent it now.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Eva » Mon Apr 25, 2011 6:21 pm

I haven't contacted "him" even though I really want to.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Licentia Poetica » Wed May 18, 2011 12:18 pm

I'm proud of myself today because even though I was feeling a bit down I didn't pull any manipulative crap on my boyfriend I just told him how I was feeling and what I needed. And although I did feel the separation anxiety when I left his place, I didn't let it overwhelm me.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by falling... » Tue Jun 07, 2011 10:42 pm

because i asked to talk to someone to sort out my issues with them, instead of avoiding them
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Eva » Sat Jun 18, 2011 8:55 am

Because I've started in therapy and I'm making progress and I really want to change my life now :)
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by falling... » Fri Jun 24, 2011 3:38 am

i put myself first and said no
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Lynds » Sat Jul 02, 2011 6:49 pm

I rode on the road that terrifies me and I even managed to do a bit of filtering!
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