Your life in 5 years......?

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Re: Your life in 5 years......?

Post by Just Pomegranates » Fri Oct 25, 2013 10:43 pm

In 5 years I'll be 28 and have finished my Bachelor of Arts degree and be working on (or nearly finished) my Fine Art degree
I will hopefully have 5 more tattoos if I continue to get a new one every year
Have visited my best friend in England
Have finished writing my first book
Be in a long term relationship
Be living in my own place/away from my parents' home
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Re: Your life in 5 years......?

Post by awkward-shark » Fri Nov 01, 2013 5:41 am

I like this idea. Although thinking about the future terrifies me, maybe it's not that hard to see my life five years from now.

My life in 5 years:
:grnstar: I have just finished my degree in hispanic language and literature, I'm just finishing my thesis.
:grnstar: I have a job at the newspaper and I plan on publishing a poestry/short stories book.
:grnstar: I'm perfectly fine with my emotions and feelings and myself in general. I can talk about it with people.
:grnstar: I'm saving money to move to Mexico city to start my master degree.
:grnstar: I haven't SI in five years.
:grnstar: I've swum with whales!
:grnstar: :lgrnstar: Call me Sharky :lgrnstar: :grnstar:

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Re: Your life in 5 years......?

Post by StarChild » Tue Dec 10, 2013 6:01 pm

Me in 5 years:

- Haven't SI'd for five years.
- Running my own business making dolls/doll clothes/accessories.
- Getting a new doll for each anniversary (6 months, 1 year, 2 years, etc.).
- Going to doll meets and other social events.
- Sober for 6-1/2 years and active in AA events.
- At a healthy weight, active, eating healthy.
- Writing and recording music.
- Have a good relationship with my family, including my little brother.
- Turning 30. :o

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Re: Your life in 5 years......?

Post by Koru » Sun Jun 29, 2014 4:03 pm

A little late coming back to this as I haven't been on BUS for 2 years!

So;
I finished an OK thesis - I wouldn't call it brilliant :-)
I got a couple of papers out of it, one in a well respected international journal.
Decided on industry rather than academia and have a job, my own flat and have moved abroad.

At 5 years I think I just about had a boyfriend, I now have a fiancé :-)

Mental health is not perfect but stable and I have a better range of strategies and am better at catching things earlier - ADs work, I should have tried them 10 years earlier.

So next 5 years;
Living in another country
Married with child(ren)
Still enjoying my job, hopefully a job grade up :-)
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Re: Your life in 5 years......?

Post by disastercake » Tue Jul 15, 2014 2:32 am

In 5 years I hope to be

:cystar: Celebrating my 6 year wedding anniversary
:lblstar: Enjoying having a toddler (maybe two)
:bluestar: Have my MSW and a Master's level position at the agency I'm at now
:lblstar: A proficient skydiver
:cystar: Living truly mindfully
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Re: Your life in 5 years......?

Post by Birdie » Tue Dec 16, 2014 9:45 am

My hopes for myself in 5 years.....

:dkpurpstar: To be living on my own
:dkpurpstar: To have a job that I enjoy and that helps others
:dkpurpstar: To have my AA in Psychology
:dkpurpstar: To be effectively managing my symptoms
:dkpurpstar: To be happy. :)
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