stupid little happy things

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by ru290 » Tue Nov 16, 2004 4:41 pm

:heart: hugs from people i want them from
:blueheart: having my face stroked as i am drifting off to sleep
:lpurpheart: being in love
:pinkheart: getting texts
:dkblheart: being the centre of attention!!
:grnheart: hearing the rain outside when i am comfy in bed
:purpheart: slippers
:sgrnheart: dogs
:lavheart: friends (when we can all show we love eachother and we're not fighting!!)
:lblheart: cant think of ne thing else right now but im sure theres loads more....
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I can't stand by and see you destroyed
I can't be here and watch you burning
It doesn't matter if I give in easy
So why is it so hard to get by?

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Post by plantt » Tue Nov 16, 2004 8:50 pm

--avocado
--cats
--eggnog lattes
--school puters when mine is broke
--dr's who care
--watching movies with people
i can get to ten. really.
--a car that runs
--people online when i am to post back & forth to
--rain
--turnip & skittles okok so repeated slightly

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Post by plantt » Wed Nov 17, 2004 10:33 pm

--knowing that moods change(ok mostly is positive when things are bad & i can remember that rather than vice versa :roll:)
--going to work
--getting errands done
--turnip
--skittles
--having pm's & emails from people
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Post by {{ silent scream }} » Thu Nov 18, 2004 12:19 am

i dont think i understant the skittles and turnips...... :oops: heheh!

but i LOVE this post, so ill add some more!

:star: getting txts from people u care about

:star: people not disturbing u when ur upset and want to be alone.

:star: looking forward to good TV programes.

:star: being releived about anything, ita a lovely feeling

:star: eating something really bad 4 u....... and loving it :lol:
i wish i were beautiful

i wish i were thin.........

** please dont hug me **

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Post by Dreamer » Thu Nov 18, 2004 12:43 am

:boingrin: Music lots of good music
:lol: Public displays of affection
:D My 3 year old daughter and all the silly things she does, just 4 me!
:oturq: Bridget Jones (fabulous)
:D My friends, There all crazy but happy
:lol: My boyfriend
:oops: And Tom Welling, Just to see a picture of him makes me smile, Hes just gorgeous!
I slipped, only I am to Blame,
but the world keeps on going,
Along with the pain.

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Post by plantt » Thu Nov 18, 2004 3:07 am

turnip <----:1cat: color him black with bits of white
skittles <----- :1cat: color him black with bits of white also
plantts kitties :blush: aren't they adorable??

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Post by plantt » Fri Nov 19, 2004 12:18 am

--getting mail that's not junk
--turnip
--skittles
--coffee

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Post by tenar » Sun Nov 21, 2004 10:55 am

- texts and getting post
- unexpected hugs
- clean sheets and pyjamas
- someone cooking for me
- warm mornings
We live in a beautiful world...
There’s nothing here to run from,
Cause everybody here’s got somebody to lean on
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Post by limestone » Sun Nov 21, 2004 3:09 pm

wearing odd socks: one pink and one grey :o

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Post by mazaru » Sun Nov 21, 2004 4:10 pm

new sheets and clean pyjamas
rainbows
snow
being able to see the centre star on Orion's belt from your bed
Maz
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Post by green chameleon » Sun Nov 21, 2004 5:37 pm

went shopping with a friend! This is huge for me.
It's hard to cut when you're holding a cat.

"Where are we first and last, bound together in our past. Much too cruel, much to fast, much too quick to anger. Traps laid bare in my face set to keep me in my place, say goodbye to the child, life it seems is colder." The Chameleons

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Post by ~invisible_me~ » Sun Nov 21, 2004 5:43 pm

getting phonecalls from special people like last night :blush:

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Post by plantt » Sun Nov 21, 2004 8:13 pm

--coffee
--kitties
--believing ppl mean it when they say it's ok for you to come over
--funny movies

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Post by morganbellamy » Wed Nov 24, 2004 4:29 pm

:star: unexpected txt/phonecall/other contace from someone you havent heard from in a while
:star: having your neck kissed
:star: popping bubble wrap
:star: seeing a song you love on a music channel (even if you have the album)
:star: meaningful hugs (there is a difference - there are hugs, that you get 20 times a day, and then there are meaningful hugs that last much longer and you feel as if some of your hurt and pain is magicaly draining away)
:star: getting so absorbed in a film that you forget that you are sat in a cinema
:star: people playing with your hair
:star: when a really cute guy that you dont know smiles at you in a nice, 'alright?' kinda way
:star: hearing lyrics that really mean something to you
:star: the feeling you get when you know that someone who says 'im there for you' REALLY means it.
:star: when you feel awful and come and post here and then some lovely person replies and somehow says just the right thing and you feel as if there are people out there who understand after all
It's as simple as that, you are so beautiful in every dimension

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Post by plantt » Fri Nov 26, 2004 10:14 am

--purrful snuggly kitties :blush:

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Post by plantt » Fri Nov 26, 2004 7:45 pm

--phone repair guys coming when they say they're going to

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Post by plantt » Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:08 pm

--getting mail :blush:

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Post by Sarita » Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:44 pm

*lip synching to a funny song
*music
*finishing a poem that you know is good
*kisses/hugs
*being told you're loved
*animals of every kind! (especially the fuzzy ones, lol!)
*the way it feels when opera shatters your soul and puts you back together again
*gerard butler LOL!
*good actors, good movies
*art
*being told that the person you're crushing on has the same feelings!
*designing a beautiful dress...
*dancing!!!
*pm chats with your good buddies

wow, there are so many things i couldn't think of off the top of my head! this is a really good idea for a post! thanks! :1hugs: :1dance: :toasting: *cheers pippy!* oh yeah,
*the saying "cheers pippy!"
scream me something beautiful
a bright red scream
scream me something hideous
jagged and piercing
scream me something...

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Post by Bateau ivre » Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:51 pm

:star: The sound that plastic coated library books make when you open them.
:star: Singing in the car
:star: Getting mail with my name on it, even if its junk.
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Post by morganbellamy » Tue Nov 30, 2004 4:55 pm

- finding a really strange pair of sunglasses in a charity shop
- matt bellamy (my husband, see user name)
- wating till there is no one in the house, then putting on angry music really loud
It's as simple as that, you are so beautiful in every dimension

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