My mom is ashamed of me!!

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My mom is ashamed of me!!

Post by kymmy » Fri May 07, 2004 2:07 am

HELP..............My mom just told me she wants nothing to do with this whole situation because it may drag her name through the mud. I love my mom dearly.....................but holy shit, get a fucking grip and come to the realization that not everyones life is in Oz. :argggh:[/code]
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Post by kymmy » Fri May 07, 2004 2:41 am

Sorry about the language......Im just a little ticked off
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Post by Laura » Fri May 07, 2004 12:03 pm

That's horrible :evil:
Can sort of relate though - my mum seems worried in case anyone finds out (surely that's my choice, shouldn't reflect on her!) and seems more bothered by my scars than by how I must have been feeling to have made them :bsad:

Dunno what to say, just try to be patient and hope she sorts it out in her mind and sees that you are more important....

I'm sorry she's reacting that way just now. It does hurt.
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Post by JadedMortality » Sat May 08, 2004 6:38 am

Sorry your mum is reacting like that...Thats horrible...
You should come first not her reputation...*hugs* if ok

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Post by Territorial Hawk » Sun May 09, 2004 1:11 am

JadedMortality wrote:Sorry your mum is reacting like that...Thats horrible...
You should come first not her reputation...*hugs* if ok

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Post by thatwackychick » Sun May 09, 2004 4:14 am

Yeah, my parents don't know, but I'm pretty sure my Mom's first reaction would be shame for the family name too. I think it would be followed by concern for me. But I couldn't deal with any of it. She raised me not to talk about such things. I shouldn't have emotions.

Sorry I can't say anything more helpful.
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Post by Orange Crush » Mon May 10, 2004 10:31 pm

the same goes for me thatwackychick.

but its not your fault. *hugs* maybe she'll come round eventually.
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Post by kymmy » Mon May 10, 2004 10:51 pm

thanks to all who have replied to my messages. Its nice to see support from someone.....
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