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tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by piglet » Mon Mar 29, 2004 9:03 pm

:1cries:
How do we find peace with ourselves?
"It is joy to be hidden, but disaster not to be found" (Winnicott)
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Lately, I've been down...

Post by jenica h. » Tue Mar 30, 2004 4:16 pm

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"I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."


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Post by Laura » Mon Apr 05, 2004 5:43 pm

I didn't go to work today because I was crying so much.
I just crawled back to bed and cried some more.
But it hasn't made me feel any better.
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Post by arax » Tue Apr 06, 2004 6:50 pm

Laura,

Good for you for crying, it takes courage. Hugs if wanted.
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Post by Distant Reflections » Wed Apr 07, 2004 1:41 am

:1cries: I wish I could cry, but the emoticon thing will cry for me.
We all carry around so much pain in our hearts. Love and pain and beauty. They all seem to go together like one little tidy confusing package. It's a messy business, life. It's hard to figure--full of surprises. Some good. Some bad.

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.
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Post by ghanima77 » Wed Apr 07, 2004 5:13 am

I've lost about everything I've worked for in the past two years. I watched my world come crashing around me and you were the only thing left. Don't shut me out, don't shut everyone out, please talk to me. I need you. :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Post by piglet » Sat Apr 10, 2004 12:40 pm

:cry: when, WHEN, will things improve?:cry:
I've given up waiting...
"It is joy to be hidden, but disaster not to be found" (Winnicott)
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Post by Frippy » Sat Apr 10, 2004 11:40 pm

hugs if you want them :1soothe: :1hug: xx
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Post by the winding trail » Mon Apr 12, 2004 7:10 pm

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Post by Grey Lady » Tue Apr 13, 2004 9:05 am

I'm sick again. I had my hopes up that I was getting better. I don't want to be sick again. I just can't take it anymore.

:cry: :cry: :cry:

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thnxs

Post by depressedgrl666 » Tue Apr 13, 2004 10:53 am

i cant stop cutting and i just want to get out some!! :x some things i tell myself not to cry over but everything is so complicated :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: literally
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Post by depressedgrl666 » Tue Apr 13, 2004 11:09 am

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it hurts to cry to show emotion i just need a shoulder to cry on :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :( :( :( :oops: :oops: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Post by piglet » Tue Apr 13, 2004 7:27 pm

What else?
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"It is joy to be hidden, but disaster not to be found" (Winnicott)
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Post by Oizys » Sat Apr 17, 2004 7:36 am

"What are you so angry at?"

"I'm not angry... I'm frustrated because it never gets better and I'm scared that I'm going to feel like this for the rest of my life."

Why don't they listen? I need help. I'm calling for it, reaching for it, all the time. they push me away.
Humanity cannot bear very much reality.
-T.S. Eliot
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Post by the_voice_told_me_to » Sun Apr 18, 2004 4:18 pm

I don't like feeling bad a then not being able to cry. :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Post by DXDamage » Mon Apr 19, 2004 5:06 pm

I dont know how to cry anymore.
Nobodys perfect.
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Post by SilentSoul » Mon Apr 19, 2004 10:04 pm

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
But I'm afraid to be alone..
Afraid you'll leave me when i'm gone
I'm afraid to come back home.
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Post by DiamondHeart » Thu Apr 29, 2004 11:07 pm

please make it stop..... make the dreams stop, please make all of the pain go away.... please.....

~Diamond~
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
-Dory, <i>Finding Nemo</i>

"Good feeling's gone."
-Marlin, <i>Finding Nemo</i>

"Find a happy place, find a happy place, FIND A HAPPY PLACE!"
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Post by reallycreamed » Thu Apr 29, 2004 11:41 pm

virtual crying....
:cry::cry::cry:

oh that helps...
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Post by jenica h. » Fri May 07, 2004 10:00 pm

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
"I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."


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