last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by 8586 » Wed Feb 18, 2004 4:55 am

(I am the 100th post in here :D )

Because I was too tired to, I wanted to, but I was too lazy! Wierd, huh?
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Post by swanfaerie » Wed Feb 18, 2004 7:42 am

cuz i headed to the games forum and wanted to get my posts to 1900.....

*points to the left...* see i did it!
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Post by hellen » Thu Feb 19, 2004 4:07 am

cross-stich!
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Post by weepnwillow » Thu Feb 19, 2004 3:09 pm

hellen wrote:cross-stich!
me too! i love to cross stitch--so relaxing. it definately helps keep my hands busy

also i have 4 kids so i do not have time to myself much, i can't do it if they are around and could possibly see it


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Post by pretty » Fri Feb 20, 2004 7:27 pm

Because the thought of covering the scars and all that hassle just about outweighed the urge.
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Post by sassy koala » Fri Feb 20, 2004 7:30 pm

i fell asleep
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Post by plantt » Fri Feb 20, 2004 9:32 pm

because i haveta leave for therapy in half hr. n i don't need yet another high priority target to discuss today.
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Post by jetblacknewme » Sat Feb 21, 2004 12:49 am

I went and watched tv, wrapped in my duvet so I couldn't get up. Then I went and cuddled my cat. :1cat:
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Post by abc » Sat Feb 21, 2004 2:13 am

I can't si at the mo cos my boyfriend dont handle it well and even tho i dont care bout me i care bout him.
so reason for not is him
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Post by skittles33 » Sat Feb 21, 2004 6:29 am

i'm too tired to deal with it.
if you are a friend and want to contact me, pm me and i'll give you my info
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Post by pink1 » Sat Feb 21, 2004 2:26 pm

Because I decided I wanted to take care of me instead of hurting me!!!!
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Post by TwistedAngel » Sat Feb 21, 2004 8:46 pm

gone.
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Post by swanfaerie » Sun Feb 22, 2004 3:45 am

cuz my friend unexpectedly im'd me and we talked for a long time till i felt better
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Post by Ime » Sun Feb 22, 2004 7:42 pm

because i knew i didn't need to, and however much i *wanted* to, it wouldn't solve anything in the long run.

Because i care about me.

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Post by 8586 » Sun Feb 22, 2004 8:21 pm

Because I've given ENOUGH blood lately (I gave blood Friday).
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Post by serenity » Mon Feb 23, 2004 3:13 am

*agrees pope has given lots of blood lately*

I didnt because i know if I started i wouldnt stop. I couldn't deal with it atm.
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Post by becs » Tue Feb 24, 2004 7:24 pm

I couldn't find a blade actually :-? Oh well, any reason is a good reason :o
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Post by roly » Tue Feb 24, 2004 8:05 pm

..because I want to get my first ever 60 days badge.
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Post by ImJusMe » Wed Feb 25, 2004 9:15 am

Because i couldnt face getting stitched up again with no numbing
and then face the ppl i hurt
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Post by *Carly* » Thu Feb 26, 2004 10:10 pm

Because I want to be able to wear anything I like without worrying my scars are awful looking.

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