last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......

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Re: last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......

Post by strmdncr » Fri Apr 20, 2012 5:49 pm

It won't help me reach my long term goals.
The temporary relief would not outweigh the anger and disappointment I'd have toward/about myself for giving in.
I want to make it to the three year si free point.
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Post by strmdncr » Sun Apr 29, 2012 3:17 pm

For me it encourages my avoiding looking at what the problem is and I don't want to continue to allow my anxieties and fears to control my life.
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Post by jadestarwalking » Mon Apr 30, 2012 5:58 am

a dear friend reminded me how much he cared about me and how he hates to see me in that state.
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Post by knocking » Mon Apr 30, 2012 9:34 am

I wanted to be able to look back on how far I've come without making myself angry..
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Post by Stefani140 » Sun May 13, 2012 6:08 am

because I've come so far and so long coping with life without it. and I don't want to have to see the fear and concern in my mom's face if she found out about it.
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Post by Stormy Llwellyn » Tue May 22, 2012 2:20 am

I remembered I could call my T in an emergency and did.
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I didn't want to give up on all I had worked for.
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Post by meadow14 » Wed Jul 04, 2012 10:56 pm

I promised my husband I would not and I keep my promises to my husband.
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Post by noldo » Mon Aug 06, 2012 7:25 pm

I don't want to SI as long as I do my internship in a kindergarten, working with really little kids so I distracted myself and took an emergency med till I fell asleep.
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Re: last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......

Post by secret_writer » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:14 am

Last time I wanted to SI, I didn't because... one of my best friends made me promise to throw my blades away and I did. She also made me promise not to cut, and the last time I did, she found out and got really angry at me in the bookstore and it really scared me, so I don't want that to happen again.
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Post by RG » Thu Jan 03, 2013 6:41 am

If I did I might as well kiss my job goodbye and my future career goodbye
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Post by Licentia Poetica » Sun Mar 10, 2013 7:12 am

This thread continues here... :snail:
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