Place To Wish

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Smeagol » Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:54 pm

I wish I didn't feel anxious.

I wish I knew whether this niggling anxiety was PMT or accumulated stress, and thus whether "this too shall pass" or whether this is a sign of something which needs handling and monitoring.

I wish my clue to rising stress levels wasn't the urge to si or suicidal thoughts.

I wish I was able to identify acute levels of stress while I was experiencing them rather than after the fact.

I wish there was more I could do to make things better even if I could figure out that there was a problem.
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by snowangel_03 » Tue Aug 16, 2011 10:30 am

Right now I wish I didn't torture myself the way I am. I wish I wasn't so selfish and made so jealous so easy. I wish I wasn't such an attention seeking whore right now.
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Just Pomegranates » Tue Aug 16, 2011 10:50 am

I wish my wrists would quit hurting :(
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by munchalot11 » Sat Sep 03, 2011 5:35 pm

I wish things could just stay the same.
I wish you could come and live in my wardrobe
Our scars remind us that the past is real

I'm an automatic steeple for depressed and lonely people...
... but the only trouble is, I don't know how to give myself advice


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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Chey » Sun Sep 11, 2011 12:00 am

I wish I could experience intimate love


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Re: Place To Wish

Post by munchalot11 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:56 pm

I wish I knew things were going to work out
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I'm an automatic steeple for depressed and lonely people...
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Descent » Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:58 pm

I wish I was skinnier.
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Chey » Tue Sep 13, 2011 3:25 pm

I wish I could stay organized better


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Re: Place To Wish

Post by PLAIN JANE » Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:06 am

I wish my boys weren't hurting so much and can somehow learn to heal.
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Chey » Thu Sep 15, 2011 11:36 pm

I wish SE would be my IC again.


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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Eva » Sat Sep 24, 2011 10:55 am

I wish:

- I would forgive myself for the stupid things I do
- I won't feel the urge to act crazy again
- That I can control my feelings better in the future
_ That I will never be so sad again that I will concider SI or SU
- That my ex-boyfriend would fall in love with me again and be nice to me, but if he won't I wish that I can find someone new and better
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Chey » Sat Sep 24, 2011 5:43 pm

I wish I could have an irl hug
I wish I had no food allergies
I wish I was healthier.


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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Eva » Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:39 pm

I wish he would come back.
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Chey » Thu Sep 29, 2011 12:27 am

I wish some people would grow up


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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Descent » Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:04 pm

I wish I could meet someone who understands.
And cares.
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by RG » Mon Oct 31, 2011 6:08 am

I wish I could just be normal
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by RG » Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:49 am

i wish somebody would see me
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Eva » Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:28 pm

I wish I would fall in love with someone soon...and he would fall in love with me. And then we could listen to my favourite song at the moment Moby with "Love should":

"Morning sun is sweet and soft on your eyes
Oh my love, you always leave me surprised
I feel my heart starts to burst
With all my love for you

I know how it rains
I know how it pours
I never could feel this way
For anyone but you"

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Re: Place To Wish

Post by PokemonGeek » Fri Nov 18, 2011 7:10 pm

I wish that people who have life made just because everything is literally handed to them on a silver platter would learn what it's like to go without and earn things themselves! I'm talking in particular about rich and celebrity kids who get to go to Ivy League schools just because "mommy and daddy went there" and paid the admissions off! Of course there ARE a few exceptions like Dolly Parton and the Gates but they are few and between. I mean my sister got to go to Harvard and had to pay for it through student loans and is STILL really down to earth! She knows what it is like to earn stuff for herself and got in by working hard in school and having a perfect SAT test score. Not because a family member made a huge donation to the school!
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Re: Place To Wish

Post by Eva » Mon Apr 23, 2012 4:37 pm

I wish for love. For at healthy and loving relationship. Why can't I get what I want. :cry:
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