Things Left Unsaid *LA*

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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by mande » Wed May 04, 2011 7:13 pm

I hope you're not getting sick of me. But if you are, that's alright.


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I want to go visit you, since you said it was okay, but I know it's too soon for both of us. I still love you and you're the greatest person in my life, but I'm too afraid of falling for you again and re-starting a disastrous relationship. I really just want to hug you and say sorry, and that I know I hurt you and after we both get our shit together we should try again.
I just don't want to hurt you.

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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by xXelmoscaresmeXx » Wed May 04, 2011 8:42 pm

i thought you didn't want to get involved with anyone...what makes her different?
why wasn't i the one who broke that rule?
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Post by noldo » Wed May 04, 2011 9:48 pm

You really don't have to bring up and discuss every little thing. Suck it up! I'm really getting sick of this!
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Windswept Thumb » Thu May 05, 2011 2:08 am

It is not words or fire in my soul that I require. It is music. And you have reawakened that music...And I have to to live without you....How does one live in complete silence?
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by disastercake » Thu May 05, 2011 5:32 am

You think your problems are so much worse than anyone else's? They're not. Some people really are poor. The people who are really poor don't have cable, internet, and smartphones with unlimited plans. The people who are really poor don't buy bridesmaids dresses, and the shoes and hairdo to go with them. Thousands of people have been in your situation and survived through it just like you will. You're being fucking stubborn, and begging him to come back will put you right back into square one and you'll be phony. You who prides yourself on being "real" are far from it. At least the you you present to most of the world. You are so scared of the real you that you hide her away. She's beautiful, I've seen glimpses in the shattered mirrors you guard your soul with. I love you, but I just can't deal with you tonight.
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Post by Beasty » Thu May 05, 2011 5:37 am

Thank you. I know it's harder for you to do this sort of thing, but I cant tell you how much I do need it.

Thank you. I'm glad I mean something to you, especially that much of something.
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Post by Licentia Poetica » Thu May 05, 2011 12:56 pm

Thankyou for keeping me looking forward to another day.
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Post by Arctic Fox » Thu May 05, 2011 4:01 pm

GFY!
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Annybelly » Thu May 05, 2011 4:15 pm

I want to die, and I'm in a bad place, and I need you to care, and I need you to be there, and to help.
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Beasty » Fri May 06, 2011 3:23 am

I never would have guessed. You have a very interesting personality, less brooding than mine. I never would have known. You, too?

You find your faith in embracing the suffering of others. You found mine, and you embraced me. I want to cry for you, and I want to cry for me. I want to cry with you. I've never been so touched in my life.
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by -Apolla- » Fri May 06, 2011 11:59 am

please, leave my life. there's no space left for somebody like you. somebody who wants to be looked after, somebody who is so immature still. I can't and I won't deal with this. I am too proud to keep running after you. sorry, but there's only so much a girl can take. I am going to restart and you are part of the past.
you annoy me. your talking is different than how you act. I can't figure you out, and honestly? I don't even want to. I am in a good calm place and I won't let you drag me out of it just by being your usual annoying self.
we've had some really nice moments and I would have liked it to work out with you, but I don't see an "us" anymore. see, I can copy your words as well. btw, thanks for putting so much effort in responding to me.
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Eva » Fri May 06, 2011 2:38 pm

I hope you'll come back today.

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Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by mande » Fri May 06, 2011 4:21 pm

I'm going to end up completely fucking this up.

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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Annybelly » Fri May 06, 2011 7:11 pm

Please... please don't ruin our fun..
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Eva » Sat May 07, 2011 10:10 am

I'm still waiting..please :(

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Post by Beasty » Sat May 07, 2011 11:32 pm

And now I would really love to see you again. Talk again. But you are leaving so soon.
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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Eva » Sun May 08, 2011 4:38 pm

I miss you...I wish I could turn back time :blfrwn:

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Re: Things Left Unsaid *LA*

Post by Stawberry_Lollipops » Sun May 08, 2011 5:02 pm

Since when did this not matter to you? It's just because I'm 'sick' isn't it? And everything pales in comparison to that.

There is more to me than being sick, it might dominate much of my life but I am more than my illness and I just wish you would treat me as such.
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Post by Annybelly » Sun May 08, 2011 6:45 pm

Just accept. Please.

And would that be okay?
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Post by stripysocks4christ » Sun May 08, 2011 9:57 pm

im sorry you have to go through this.. i wish i could protect you from her. i feel like its my duty.. and im sorry. just, it will get better. i know how your feeling right now, but its gonna be OK.
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