I'm proud of myself today because....

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Elfgirl » Thu Jan 06, 2011 1:13 am

I handled a day of anxiety without using any destructive coping strategies.

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by becky-marie » Thu Jan 20, 2011 2:52 pm

I'm proud of myself today because I wrote that essay in English class instead of just sitting there angrily, even though I had no idea what to write.

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by capricorn » Mon Jan 24, 2011 11:56 pm

I didn't commit suicide.
I didn't cut.
I didn't hurt myself.
I talked to my friends when I needed to.
I went to all my lectures.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Tue Jan 25, 2011 6:00 pm

I got a lot done for moving prep. Did all my to-do's.


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by PokemonGeek » Wed Jan 26, 2011 6:12 pm

It's been four years now since I last physically SI'd! :1hugs: :1groupflip: :disco: :multi:
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Wed Jan 26, 2011 7:01 pm

I have been getting packing started


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Stormy Llwellyn » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:09 am

I put in an application to do volunteer work that will be theraputic for me.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Fri Feb 04, 2011 9:58 pm

because I got lots done and I talked to someone about a form that was making me feel anxious and after talking and rearranging some plans early next week I feel more confident and my anxiety is much less.


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Stormy Llwellyn » Sat Feb 05, 2011 6:28 am

I called my T and revised my plan for therapy as I outlined.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by SplinteredGirl » Sat Feb 05, 2011 10:53 pm

ive made it over a month no SI

im getting back into my art groove

i havnt been outting myself down *as much* the last few days

ive gone out of my way to make sure im not alone when i start getting the *noise* in my head

even though sometimes i feel hopeless and very unmotivated i have managed to find osme places that are hiring, and drop off resumes, and at least cruise craigslist when i cant get out of bed.

my room isnt *that* messy right now. could use a vacuuming tho.

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by -Apolla- » Sat Mar 12, 2011 12:39 pm

I finally cooked something that was eatable.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by strider 151 » Sat Mar 12, 2011 3:25 pm

^ yay congratz :D

I started learning my french today and i now know the whole of sheet one :olol: i feel like i have acomplished so much today. and i invited a friend around so i didnt have tonight on my own because i dont trust myself

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Sat Mar 12, 2011 8:38 pm

Great stuff on learning the French and having a friend over is great too.


I am proud of myself for baking for the street kids youth group and opening up to my friend without dwelling on negitive life experiences, just a little so she understands some of my little quirks better :)


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by demolition_lover » Sun Mar 13, 2011 4:11 am

I got my entire lab report done and I hadn't even started it this morning, and I had so much trouble getting motivated. But now it's done!!
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Chey » Sun Mar 13, 2011 2:33 pm

i cheered myself up so I wont be a grumpy puss all day


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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by demolition_lover » Sun Mar 13, 2011 9:32 pm

I dragged myself out to the barn even though my foot really hurts, because I knew I would feel better if I got to see my favourite horse. And I rode really well, it was a good work-out and even though it hurt, it was worth it.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by breathing » Wed Mar 16, 2011 5:04 am

I realized that I haven't SIed in almost a year. :o

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by michelg » Thu Mar 17, 2011 8:17 am

Well , at last i planned my trip to Thailand . Just can't wait to go to phuket and have some fun :)

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Neviah » Fri Mar 18, 2011 10:36 am

i didnt si yesterday even though i came VERY close
havent si'd today

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by -Apolla- » Sat Mar 19, 2011 12:53 pm

well done :disco:
for that you can really be proud :)
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